PEOPLE TRAINING OR DOG TRAINING?

Is your dog the only one who needs training? (Photo: woman high-fiving a Golden Retriever)

Is your dog the only one who needs training? (Photo: woman high-fiving a Golden Retriever)

“It’s us that need to be trained,” says my new client to her husband. “Absolutely,” he says.

They are sitting on a couch with pens poised over notebooks, eager to learn how to help their dogs walk better on the leash, stop growling when they have bones, and how to stop them from counter surfing. 

In my experience, clients who bring out the notepad see results faster than those who don’t. It’s not only the presence of the notepad, it’s that statement: “It’s us that need the training.”  

“It’s us that need training.” (Photo: couple petting their dog)

“It’s us that need training.” (Photo: couple petting their dog)

Many of my clients have grown up with dogs who are a breeze. These dogs listened well, ignored other dogs while on leash, and never stole food from countertops. 

Now in their adult years, they adopt their own dog. Sometimes this first dog is also a breeze. Then, two or three dogs down the line, they adopt a puppy or a rescue dog who requires a different set of training skills. These clients quickly realize that the training methods that worked on their previous dogs aren’t working. Rather than getting frustrated trying the same methods over and over, they ask for help. 

They want to know WHY! 

Why is this dog so nervous when we’ve had her from a puppy? 

Why does she pull aggressively toward other dogs when she’s on a leash, but is friendly at the dog park? 

Why won’t she listen to me? This one is also frequently paired with: She’ll do what I ask, but then just walk away a few seconds later and go back to the bad behaviour. 

At Beyond Dog Training we go BEYOND training your dog. We train people. And we have a lot of fun doing it! 

Learning with Beyond Dog Training is FUN! (Photo: woman cuddling two Dachshunds)

Learning with Beyond Dog Training is FUN! (Photo: woman cuddling two Dachshunds)

Our job is to make sure our clients understand the root cause of their dog’s behavioural issues and then provide them with the tools to change the behaviour. 

This prevents training “solutions” that simply put a bandaid on barking (for example) and then two weeks later the bad behaviour bubbles up somewhere else. 

By understanding WHY your dog is barking in the first place and learning more about her, you’ll strengthen the bond between the two of you that much more. 

So, people training or dog training? Both, but in that order. 

The best board-and-train businesses will tell you the exact same thing. They’ll take your dog for a few weeks (sometimes longer) and then they will train YOU how to maintain what they have taught your dog. 

Owners who are taught how to keep up with the training program are the ones who succeed. 

Don’t believe me? I just met a $10,000 Belgian Malinois currently on his second home. He had been sent to an expensive board and train facility and his owners simply expected him to be perfect afterward. When his behaviour became too much for them, they returned him to the breeder. Thankfully that breeder found him a new owner who was willing to work hard EVERY DAY to meet his physical and mental needs. I watched him play fetch and he was having the time of his life. Magic was already tired from our long hike, so she watched too.

Are you meeting your dog’s physical AND mental needs? (Photo: Belgian Malinois running in long grass)

Are you meeting your dog’s physical AND mental needs? (Photo: Belgian Malinois running in long grass)

Everyone is at a different place in their dog journey. Everyone’s learning style is different. Every dog is different. 

You don’t need a notepad to succeed with us, only an open mind and a desire to learn. 

We look forward to working with you and your dogs!

Alyssa 

Photos by: Richard Brutyo @richardbrutyo (woman high-fiving a Golden Retriever,) Chewy @chewy (couple petting their dog,) Michael Tomaszewski @ralius (woman cuddling two Dachshunds,) Anthony Duran @fightmorefilms (Belgian Malinois running in long grass.)

Tips to Stop Puppy Biting

OUCH! How do I get my puppy to stop biting me? (Photo: puppy biting man’s hand)

OUCH! How do I get my puppy to stop biting me? (Photo: puppy biting man’s hand)

The honeymoon phase is short. Your sweet and cuddly puppy has now earned the nickname GREMLIN. She gets a crazy look in her eye and just won’t stop biting you. What’s going on? 

Puppies learn about the world with their mouths. They don’t have thumbs, so they don’t pick things up with their paws to examine them the way primates do. When puppies play with their littermates, they use their mouths to wrestle. The puppies give each other feedback about the bites. If it’s too much, they yelp or end the game. 

As humans who have brought a puppy in to live in our human world, we often learn the hard way how much puppy teeth hurt. We get scrapes and bites on out hands and feet, and holes in our sweaters. 

Here are a few tips to help you ride the bite wave (because it does get better, I promise.) 

Owning a puppy requires patience and a desire to teach them how to live in the human world (Photo: person holding three sleeping puppies)

Owning a puppy requires patience and a desire to teach them how to live in the human world (Photo: person holding three sleeping puppies)

PATIENCE — Puppies teach us how to be patient. It’s a great gift. Stay calm while your puppy is in bite-mode. If you become more exciting by yelping a lot and moving around, you will keep the game going. Be boring. 

REDIRECT — Provide alternatives to chew on. Today, her favourite rubber bone isn’t popular, so try a plush toy instead. 

Today is a frisbee day. Later today, your puppy may prefer a frozen chew toy, a rope toy, or plush toy. Switch things up frequently. (Photo: Australian Shepherd catches a flying frisbee)

Today is a frisbee day. Later today, your puppy may prefer a frozen chew toy, a rope toy, or plush toy. Switch things up frequently. (Photo: Australian Shepherd catches a flying frisbee)

TIRED PUPPY — Puppies usually get really bitey when they are tired. This may be a great time to do a quick crate training session, and watch your puppy nod off to sleep. 

TEETHING — Some companies make chew toys that are designed for the freezer. Some are flavoured and even change colour. These cold toys provide comfort to your teething puppy. 

Try Nylabone’s Chill and Chew Freezer Dog Bone Treat Toys. The textured ridges make them versatile and satisfy your puppy’s need to chew. 

You can also try freezing a wet face cloth (rolled up.) Your puppy will love to chew on this too. Variety is everything during this stage. 

Bottom line: Don’t take puppy-biting personally and don’t get angry. Getting frustrated only makes things worse, because puppies are used to following CALM energy (their mom was CALM and she had RULES too.) 

Becoming a more patient person is a great gift. It is truly amazing what dogs can teach US!!! 

Have a wonderful weekend, Dog Leaders. 

Alyssa 

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Photos by: Daniel Lincoln @danny_lincoln (puppy biting man’s hand,) Anna Dudkova

@annadudkova (person holding three sleeping puppies,) Wolfgang Hasselmann

@wolfgang_hasselmann (Australian Shepherd catches a flying frisbee.)

HOW TO TRAIN YOUR DOG WITHOUT FOOD

Coming! What’s my reward for coming back, though? (Photo: Australian Shepherd running towards photographer)

Coming! What’s my reward for coming back, though? (Photo: Australian Shepherd running towards photographer)

Is your dog overweight because your last trainer told you to feed her hotdogs? You fed her as strangers approached, as dogs walked by, and every time you saw a squirrel. You fed her every time she sat, every time she lay down, and every time she barked out the window. Sometimes when you fed her, you thought, “Am I reinforcing her for barking at the window, though?” 

Your gut instinct was right. Your dog learned that when she barks at the window, the next thing she should do is run to you and get a nice piece of hotdog. Since your trainer didn’t show you what to do next, your dog took the lead and ran back to the window to bark some more, and then came back for more treats. What an awesome game! 

Bark. Treat. Repeat. (Photo: two dogs sitting on a balcony)

Bark. Treat. Repeat. (Photo: two dogs sitting on a balcony)

Now your dog is overweight and your veterinarian says if she doesn’t lose the weight, she’ll need knee surgery. 

How are you going to get your dog to listen to you? This is the only way you know how to “train,” so now what do you do? 

You read on. 

One of my newer clients called me to help with her rescue dog. She’d been training with food, but quickly realized that when her dog is outside and fixated on another dog she could “slap him in the face with a steak and he wouldn’t notice.” 

Sound familiar? 

Is it impossible to get your dog to come back to you when you don’t have food? (Photo: two dogs running together off-leash)

Is it impossible to get your dog to come back to you when you don’t have food? (Photo: two dogs running together off-leash)

Here are some tips to help you reach your goal of a friendly family dog who is nice to strangers and doesn’t pull on the leash…and is a healthy weight too: 

  1. WHAT DOES YOUR DOG LOVE? — Your dog loves YOU! She will likely work for your praise. You should use your voice to praise your dog. Be aware that dogs who are very high drive and excited already don’t need your “Good sit!” to have as much enthusiasm as if your child just got into the university of their choice. All dogs are snowflakes. Figure out whether a calmer tone helps your dog know she’s done a good job, or if you need a little more enthusiasm (because your dog is a little bit shy and requires more encouragement.)

  2. TOUCH — Along with your voice, some dogs are very happy to work for being petted. We’ve all seen a police dog getting thumped on the rump for a job well done. That doesn’t mean YOUR pet dog enjoys that much enthusiasm and force. Some dogs like that and some dogs don’t. Your dog may be a little shy and likes a gentle chest rub. Bottom line, know YOUR dog. Again, this is NOT a one-size-fits-all blog. We are BEYOND dog training because we help our clients learn how to best reach THEIR goals with THEIR dog.

Find the reward that works best for YOUR dog (Photo: German Shepherd-Akita mix being rewarded with petting)

Find the reward that works best for YOUR dog (Photo: German Shepherd-Akita mix being rewarded with petting)

TOYS — Your dog loves tug o’ war. Use this to your advantage. Your tug toy is now your dog’s reward. Ask them to heel, lay down, or sit and reward them with a bit of tug. Before using this method, teach your dog a reliable “drop it” command. Check out this video on IGTV where I work with a new rescue dog named Odin. His owner was spending LOTS of money on treats. Watch this beautiful boy work for his favourite toy here: https://www.instagram.com/tv/CHvBASansZR/

Tug o’ war is a great reward for dogs who love tug (Photo: German Shepherd puppy playing tug o’ war)

Tug o’ war is a great reward for dogs who love tug (Photo: German Shepherd puppy playing tug o’ war)

We hope you have lots of fun learning about what motivates YOUR dog. Drop a comment below and let us know what your dog loves to work for. 

If you want to learn how to wean your dog off of treats gradually, we can show you how to do that. Give us a call (for FREE) and we’ll get you on the path to a healthier dog.

Schedule a free call with us today: https://beyonddogtraining.ca/take-action or click the TAKE ACTION button below.

We would love to hear about your dog’s unique needs. 

We are in no way against using treats while working with dogs. This blog post  is designed to help those of you who have a dog who REFUSES food in certain situations and either shuts down with fear or explodes out of excitement (and or aggression.) This is designed to help those of you who are being yanked to the ground (or into traffic) by your dog when your dog sees another dog, squirrel, or jogger while you’re out walking. 

Hope it helps!! 

Have a wonderful weekend, Dog Leaders!

Alyssa  


Photos by: Free Upsplash Image (Australian Shepherd running towards photographer,) Brina Blum @brina_blum (two dogs sitting on a balcony,) bantersnaps @bantersnaps (German Shepherd-Akita mix being rewarded with petting,) Vincent van Zalinge @vincentvanzalinge (two dogs running together off-leash,) Rebecca Campbell @campbellcreates (German Shepherd puppy playing tug o’ war.)

DOES YOUR DOG RUN AWAY FROM YOU?

Does your dog run away every time you pick up her harness? (Photo: Weimaraner licking its lips and moving away from camera)

Does your dog run away every time you pick up her harness? (Photo: Weimaraner licking its lips and moving away from camera)

You walk toward your front hall. You haven’t even TOUCHED the harness yet, but your dog has taken off. You’ve blocked off all of her usual hiding places, but she can still fit under the bed and you forgot to close the door. You can’t reach her. 

“I have to go to work,” you say to her. You try not to sound frustrated, but your voice betrays you. And then you drop an *F* bomb. Your dog is shaking and scared and now you feel worse because not only is she afraid of the harness, she’s afraid of you too. 

If you leave for work, you’ll come back to shredded curtains, pee, and likely a stinky poo as well. 

If you stay and wait for her to come out from under the bed, you’ll be late for work again and your boss will probably fire you. 

Why does she hide every time you pick up (or go near) her harness? 

Have you accidentally taught your dog to run away from you when it’s time to go for a walk? (Photo: chihuahua wearing a harness and leash)

Have you accidentally taught your dog to run away from you when it’s time to go for a walk? (Photo: chihuahua wearing a harness and leash)

The most likely answer is that your dog never learned how to have her harness put on properly, so she doesn’t enjoy the ritual. 

You can be the one to teach her how to ENJOY having her harness put on, but you need to SLOW DOWN. 

Don’t teach her when you only have five minutes before you’re going to be late for work. Teach her on your day off and really take your time. 

Dogs will only COME to humans who are calm, confident LEADERS. 

If your dog views you as her bestie instead of her boss, you need to work on that part of your relationship first. 

Does your dog come when called? If not, begin there. Recall saves lives. If she won’t come to you to put her harness on, she won’t come to you when she’s nose-to-nose with an aggressive dog, a porcupine, or an oncoming bus. 

Every time your dog comes to you should be a POSITIVE EXPERIENCE for her. This doesn’t mean she gets a steak every time (or a package of hotdogs.) 

Right now, every time she comes to you, she gets put into a harness that she doesn’t like wearing. Try sitting down and letting her come to you. Try not being in a rush. Try not getting frustrated at her (or yourself) during the process. 

Teaching your dog to come builds trust (Photo: black and white dog runs toward person sitting on the ground)

Teaching your dog to come builds trust (Photo: black and white dog runs toward person sitting on the ground)

Teach your dog to become part of the process. Crouch down and wait for your dog to come to you. Do not use the moment they arrive to snatch them up and yank on the harness. Instead, praise them for coming. Be sure to say “Good come,” instead of “Good girl,” so your pup can learn what she did correctly. 

Practice “Come” in various parts of your home. Practice calling her while standing up as well. Call her while you’re in a different room from her. Before you know it, you’ll be practicing outside too!

When she begins to learn that coming to you is awesome, you’ll be well on your way to being able to have her come to you while you’re holding the harness. 

The more patient you are and the more repetitions you do, the faster your dog will learn. 

Let us know in the comments below if you struggle to put on your dog’s harness.

Be kind to yourself and your dog. 

Working with animals isn’t easy and it’s okay NOT to know how to do everything correctly. The important thing is you’re here, you’re learning, and you’ll do anything to help your dog have an awesome life. You’ll get there! Keep going!

Alyssa 

Photos by: Nathalie SPEHNER@nathalie_spehner (Weimaraner licking its lips and moving away from camera,) Sharon McCutcheon @sharonmccutcheon (chihuahua wearing a harness and leash,) UPSPLASH image (black and white dog runs toward person sitting on the ground)

WAS HALLOWE’EN A NIGHTMARE FOR YOU?

Was Hallowe’en tough on you and your pup? (Photo: French bulldog wearing a ghost costume)

Was Hallowe’en tough on you and your pup? (Photo: French bulldog wearing a ghost costume)

Hallowe’en brings a trifecta of terror to many dog owners. 

First, there’s the decorations. Even the “regular” kind that don’t move, like skeletons or zombie arms jutting out of the ground, can be scary to some dogs. 

How did your dog do with the motion-sensor decorations this year? The ones that light up, move, and make noise. 

Which decorations scare your dog the most? (Photo: life-sized skeletons pose in a yard)

Which decorations scare your dog the most? (Photo: life-sized skeletons pose in a yard)

How about the large inflatable jack o’ lanterns and cats? 

How about the plastic tape snapping in the wind? 

Ghosts swinging from tree branches? 

Let us know in the comments what your dogs struggled with. 

Whether stationary, moving on their own, or blowing in the wind, Hallowe’en decorations can be scary for some dogs (Photo: zombie hanging from a tree)

Whether stationary, moving on their own, or blowing in the wind, Hallowe’en decorations can be scary for some dogs (Photo: zombie hanging from a tree)

The second struggle that comes with Hallowe’en is people in costumes. Adults wear ENORMOUS…well, I’d call them masks, but really they are heads. These can be quite alarming to some dogs, especially when paired with HUGE fake hands. 

For dogs who are afraid of children, or people carrying objects, Hallowe’en is no fun at all. Not only are there children, but they are RUNNING, SCREAMING, and MOVING TOWARD YOUR DOG VERY QUICKLY while you’re out walking. Some rescue dogs really struggle with children waving swords, lightsabers, and pitch forks. 

Does your rescue dog cower in fear when people carry lightsabers…or golf clubs? (Photo: Darth Vadar pointing a lightsaber at the camera)

Does your rescue dog cower in fear when people carry lightsabers…or golf clubs? (Photo: Darth Vadar pointing a lightsaber at the camera)

The third issue is people BANGING ON THE FRONT DOOR. This is something that many people struggle with on a daily basis, often locking their dog up when they have guests over. Hallowe’en is a gentle reminder to many people that their dog could really benefit from some training in this area. Wouldn’t you LOVE for your dog to be a part of your family gatherings? 

Trick or Treat? Are you and your dog ready for scary visitors? (Photo: person wearing a Freddy Kruger costume)

Trick or Treat? Are you and your dog ready for scary visitors? (Photo: person wearing a Freddy Kruger costume)

Let’s spend some time chatting about decorations because a) they are still going to be up for another couple of weeks and b) Christmas decorations are already going up. 

If your dog is concerned about decorations (nervous, running away from, won’t “let you” walk past them) there are a few tips you can try. None of us want our dog to live in fear. It’s a terrible way to feel. 

All dogs are different, so this may not work for every dog (depending on how fearful they are,) but if that’s the case, you can always schedule a FREE phone call with us and get some one-on-one coaching to help you out. The TAKE ACTION button will lead you straight to your FREE PHONE CALL.

  1. BE CALM — If your dog has previously been afraid of decorations, you may be on edge and worried before you even pass by. Take a deep breath, relax, and look at your leash — it should be loose. Our own nervousness will travel down a tense leash and straight into our dogs. Breathe and believe!

    2. DON’T AVOID…TEACH — A lot of us do two things when it comes to dogs. We either AVOID the situation altogether (lock up your dog when people come over, store all food high up so they can’t reach it, never walk by certain houses because of decorations or backyard barkers.) When we do this, we miss an OPPORTUNITY TO TEACH. Take the opportunity to HELP your dog through the situation, instead of just brushing it under the rug. The other thing we tend to do is RUSH. We leave the house and only have time for a five minute walk (already in a rush,) and then scurry past scary decorations (because we think that will make it better, like ripping off a bandaid.)

Being on your phone and in a rush isn’t going to help your dog relax (or you!) (Photo: hand throwing away a cell phone)

Being on your phone and in a rush isn’t going to help your dog relax (or you!) (Photo: hand throwing away a cell phone)

Be in the moment. Leave your house with a clear goal of desensitizing your dog to ONE particular type of decoration. You don’t have to do all of them on the same walk, just try ONE thing. Experiment with walking past the object from a distance. Observe when your dog is uncomfortable (are you 30 feet away, 20 feet away, across the street?) Write all of these things down for your dog behaviourist. Every bit of information helps solve the puzzle. If you feel confident that you can tackle this on your own, hang out with your dog at a distance where they can ignore the object and LISTEN to a command. It’s okay if it’s far away, you can move closer gradually — and you don’t need to do it all in one day.

3. REWARDS — be sure to reward your dog when they are calm and relaxed. It may take awhile for them to be relaxed around the object, and that’s okay. Stand with them, with no leash tension, and simply be a calm source of energy. They will look to you for advice — if you look calm, they will feel safe. The reward doesn’t have to be food. You can rub their chest, say “good settle,” or engage in some tug of war. If they can play near the object, you’ll know they’re comfortable. If they are very food motivated and will NOT take a treat, you’ll know you still have work to do. And that’s okay. All good things are worth working for.

Remember to be consistent with your dog. If someone in your family is petting Daisy when she is shaking with fear beside a giant spider, they are reinforcing the fearful behaviour. Be sure that you come up with a solid plan about how to help your dog past her fear and GET ALL FAMILY MEMBERS ON BOARD. 

It’s the same for a dog who jumps up. If one family member allows jumping up, the dog will continue to be confused and jump up. 

I hope you had an amazing Hallowe’en and that you are able to help your dogs move past their fear of decorations in time for December. 

Alyssa 

Photos by: Sarah Shull (French bulldog wearing a ghost costume,) NeONBRAND @neonbrand (life-sized skeletons pose in a yard,) Bellava G @bellava (zombie hanging from a tree,) Jose Martinez @jmartinez143 (Darth Vadar pointing a lightsaber at the camera,) Ilya Shishikhin @shishilya (person wearing a Freddy Kruger costume,) and Stanislav Kondratiev @technobulka (hand throwing away a cell phone.)

REACTIVE RESCUE DOGS

Being behind your dog is necessary for some dog sports — it’s NOT necessary for daily walks with your pet dog (Photo: large, on-leash dog pulling human toward another human)

Being behind your dog is necessary for some dog sports — it’s NOT necessary for daily walks with your pet dog (Photo: large, on-leash dog pulling human toward another human)

Your new best friend barks at EVERYTHING when you’re out for a walk. Not only THAT, but he LUNGES toward people and other dogs. You’ve become “THAT DOG OWNER” — the one people cross the street to get away from. 

You feel TERRIBLE because your dog is scaring people (and children.) You’ve watched a lot of YOUTUBE VIDEOS, but nothing is working. If anything, your dog has gotten WORSE…and FAT! 

Not only are you embarrassed by his behaviour, your entire body hurts. You DREAD WALKING HIM. 

Do you feel like you have to hold on for dear life? That’s no fun! (Photo: dog on a halti with too much leash tension)

Do you feel like you have to hold on for dear life? That’s no fun! (Photo: dog on a halti with too much leash tension)

Imagine a peaceful walk with your dog. Where would you most like to take him? The beach? A trail? Picture yourself strolling along passing people, other dogs, skateboards, and bikes. He’s not pulling or barking. 

Now, let’s make this a REALITY. 

Answer these questions: 

  1. Does my dog always walk in front of me? 

  2. Am I stressed out during the walk?  

Did you answer YES to both of those questions? 

Did you know that changing these two things can help you? 

It’s not as simple as flipping a light switch. It’s a challenge to teach a dog to walk beside you and it’s an even BIGGER challenge to be CALM and CONFIDENT during your walks, but it’s worth it. 

Not only will you FEEL BETTER, so will your dog.

This dog is showing whale eye. Look that up, you will thank me later. (Photo: a chihuahua mix giving whale eye while on leash in FRONT of his owner)

This dog is showing whale eye. Look that up, you will thank me later. (Photo: a chihuahua mix giving whale eye while on leash in FRONT of his owner)

This week, I want you to work on YOU so you can FEEL LESS STRESSED during your walks. 

Before you leave for your walk, I want you to empty your mind of all the bad things that happened on your walks before. Those things are now in your rearview. In the past. Leave them there. 

Before you even pick up the leash, I want you to remind yourself of one thing in your life that you are VERY good at. Is it singing? Is it being a mom? Is it being a doctor? Whatever it is, I want you to be THAT version of you right now. The calm one. The confident one. The one that knows “I’ve got this.” 

The CALM and CONFIDENT you, is the one YOUR DOG WILL HAPPILY FOLLOW (Photo: person walking with their dog heeling)

The CALM and CONFIDENT you, is the one YOUR DOG WILL HAPPILY FOLLOW (Photo: person walking with their dog heeling)

WHY does this matter? 

Dogs are pack animals. They follow a leader who PROTECTS them and gives them DIRECTION. They don’t follow HYPER dogs. They don’t follow FEARFUL dogs. They don’t follow TENSE dogs. This is the SAME when they join a human family. They will only follow CALM and CONFIDENT humans. 

If they view you as a source of sweet, passive, fearful, nervous, tense, or frustrated energy, they will HAVE NO CHOICE but to LEAD. 

Very few dogs are actually HAPPY with the leadership role. Most dogs, especially your fearful new rescue dog, are MORE STRESSED OUT walking in front of you and being your leader. 

I KNOW that you didn’t adopt your rescue dog with the intention of causing them MORE STRESS, so let’s take the necessary steps and change the roles the two of you are playing. Right now, HE is the LEADER and YOU are the FOLLOWER. You walk BEHIND him, so you are the follower. 

Did you know that lip-licking is a sign of STRESS in dogs? (Photo: dog walking in front of his person, licking his lips)

Did you know that lip-licking is a sign of STRESS in dogs? (Photo: dog walking in front of his person, licking his lips)

You can learn how to LEAD him on the walk here: https://beyonddogtraining.ca/news/what-you-allow-you-agree-with

Remember to focus on finding what makes YOU feel calm and confident before and during your walks. The most beautiful thing about this process is reminding yourself how truly strong you are. A lot of the time we let our inner-meanie say nasty things to us. Silencing that voice will lead you to a more balanced way of being. You can thank your dog for helping heal you. Who really rescued who? 

Have a fun weekend teaching your dog (and yourself) new things. 

Alyssa

Photos by: Anna Dudkova (large, on-leash dog pulling human toward another human,) David Schultz (dog on a halti with too much leash tension,) Richard Burlton (a chihuahua mix giving whale eye while on leash in FRONT of his owner,) Jenn Simpson (person walking with their dog heeling,) Dominik Kempf (dog walking in front of his person, licking his lips.)

What You Allow, You Agree With

If you ALLOW leash pulling, then you AGREE with leash pulling (Photo: terrier pulling on the leash)

If you ALLOW leash pulling, then you AGREE with leash pulling (Photo: terrier pulling on the leash)

Does your dog pull on the leash? Drag you toward other dogs? Every tree and bush? Every cat and squirrel? 

Your dog has learned that pulling forward is allowed. 

What we allow, we agree with. 

Every time you leave home and your dog pulls ahead of you and you follow — you AGREE that this is how we walk as a pack. 

If you allow your dog to pull on the leash (by following him down the street on HIS walk,) you AGREE with the way he is walking. He will continue to walk this way until you train him to walk nicely on the leash. 

This same principle applies to every aspect of your relationship with your dog. 

If you allow your dog not to listen to your “Come!” command, then you agree that when you ask him to do something, he can simply ignore you. This is super dangerous, by the way — recall saves lives. 

If you allow your dog to ignore your “Come,” command, you AGREE with that behaviour of ignoring you (Photo: off-leash dog stands looking at his owner)

If you allow your dog to ignore your “Come,” command, you AGREE with that behaviour of ignoring you (Photo: off-leash dog stands looking at his owner)

If your dog jumps on you and you allow it, then you agree with it. The following day, when it’s raining and you’re wearing your favourite white sweater, don’t get angry and push your dog off because he put muddy paw prints on your top. You TAUGHT him to do that yesterday. He shouldn’t “know” not to do that when you’re wearing THAT sweater. And he won’t know not to jump on your nephew three days from now, or your own children (or grandchildren) three years from now. 

Be consistent with your dog and expect anyone who interacts with your dog to follow your rules. You will encounter strangers who want to pet your new puppy or rescue dog. They may not mind if your dog jumps up. Heck, they may even ENCOURAGE your dog to jump up. Don’t let that happen. Speak up. 

Stranger: “Can I pet your dog?” 

You: “Sure. She’s in training. Please only pet her when all four feet are on the ground and she’s calm.” 

If your dog struggles not to jump on people, or consistently jumps up when strangers use the baby-talk voice (you know the one!) feel free to answer: “No. Sorry. She’s in training,” and keep right on walking. 

You don’t need to set your dog’s training back a step so that someone else can fulfill THEIR needs with YOUR dog. 

If you pet this excited dog, you are AGREEING with EXCITEMENT and JUMPING UP (Photo: an excited mini Doodle pulls on the leash with both front feet off the ground)

If you pet this excited dog, you are AGREEING with EXCITEMENT and JUMPING UP (Photo: an excited mini Doodle pulls on the leash with both front feet off the ground)

TIP OF THE WEEK: It’s not how far you walk, it’s HOW you walk that matters. 

Remember that quote from Madmen? “If you don’t like what’s being said, change the conversation.” 

Being pulled around by your dog IS a CONVERSATION. They are saying “Let’s go this way now.” If you move in their direction, you are answering as a follower, “Okay.” 

If you’re tired of being pulled, STOP walking. Take a deep breath and try this. 

  1. Get your dog’s attention — say their name, make a kissy noise, or wave a treat near their nose. If you CAN’T GET THEIR ATTENTION, MOVE INSIDE YOUR HOME. Go to step 2. 

  2. Say your dog’s name, and the word heel. “Sally, heel.” Start walking. You should still have her attention on you, not the ground (sniffing.) 

  3. As soon as she is in position, beside or slightly behind your knee, say “Good heel.” 

  4. Change direction BEFORE Sally gets distracted by a scent (rabbit, squirrel) or sight (another dog — or your cat, if you’re working inside) Don’t forget to say the command, “Sally, heel.” 

  5. If Sally keeps heeling, say “Good heel.” If she doesn’t, use a leash correction to remind her “Hey, we’re walking where I want today. I’m actually really sick of having a sore back and we’re trying this new awesome way of walking.” 

You don’t need a lot of space for this activity. Think of it as a ten foot by ten foot square. Sometimes you will turn toward your dog, and sometimes you will turn away from your dog. 

Leadership is a feeling. It comes from within. Anyone can do it! (Photo: toddler walks terrier — the terrier is following/heeling)

Leadership is a feeling. It comes from within. Anyone can do it! (Photo: toddler walks terrier — the terrier is following/heeling)

PRO TIP: There should be NO tension on the leash during this activity. 

If I were to offer this toddler any advice, it would be to relax their right arm. When you work with your dog at home, don’t make an L-shape with your arm. Your arm should be relaxed and by your side.

You don’t have to spend a lot of time to teach your dog to heel. Try five minutes a day for a week inside your home and tell us how it goes in the comments. 

Be sure to have fun with this challenge. Dogs and people learn better when they are having a good time. 

The reason it’s easier to practice INDOORS is because OUTSIDE has WAY MORE DISTRACTIONS. It smells AWESOME to your dog outside. This means that YOU have to compete to be extra awesome in the eyes of your dog when you are outside. 

Inside there are less distractions. Work up to heeling outside gradually. You will reach your goal! 

Have fun with it! 

Alyssa

Photos by: freestocks (terrier pulling on the leash,) Matt Bradford-Aunger (off-leash dog stands looking at his owner,)

Honest Paws (an excited mini Doodle pulls on the leash with both front feet off the ground,) and Robert Eklund (toddler walks terrier — the terrier is following/heeling.)

WELL-TRAINED VS BALANCED

There is a difference between a dog laying down and a dog laying down calmly (Photo: white Siberian Husky laying down in front of a lake and mountains)

There is a difference between a dog laying down and a dog laying down calmly (Photo: white Siberian Husky laying down in front of a lake and mountains)

Do you have a well-trained dog? A dog who comes when she’s called, heels on the leash, and listens to you when you say “leave it?” That same dog, who is very well trained in a number of commands, may still be unbalanced. 

What does that mean? 

Although your dog can do many things that you ask of her, she is stressed out while doing the tasks. She whines anxiously almost all of the time. She shakes in fear when you move the furniture. She barks at everything that passes your front window and can’t seem to stop — and won’t listen to you when she’s in that state of mind. 

Dog training sometimes focuses on the mechanics more than the state of mind. Some trainers will teach you sit, down, stay, and come and show you to feed your dog for compliance into these positions WITHOUT REGARD FOR WHAT STATE OF MIND YOUR DOG IS IN. 

What state of mind are you feeding/rewarding? (Photo: person holding a treat up high, encouraging a black Lab to jump up for the treat)

What state of mind are you feeding/rewarding? (Photo: person holding a treat up high, encouraging a black Lab to jump up for the treat)

Your dog may come, but gallop to you with too much excitement, smacking into your legs. If you say, “Good come,” and pay them with food, you’ve just taught your dog to greet all people with excitement. That is how they will greet your mother, your grandmother, and toddlers. 

Dog psychology looks at the state of mind that the dog is in and rewards calmness. Who doesn’t love a calm dog? Calm dogs don’t knock your cute children over. Calm dogs don’t bound through someone’s picnic in the park. Calm dogs don’t bite your hand when you’re trying to take their toy out of their mouth during fetch. 

Calm dogs don’t chomp your fingers off while you’re playing fetch (Photo: person gently taking a tennis ball from a Rottweiler’s mouth)

Calm dogs don’t chomp your fingers off while you’re playing fetch (Photo: person gently taking a tennis ball from a Rottweiler’s mouth)

Calm does not equal boring. 

Can you still play with a calm dog? 

Absolutely! Calm dogs are more fun to play with, because they are playing with YOU not just the toy in your hand. 

We’ve all seen that excited (and LOUD) dog at the park who is BARKING, BARKING, BARKING at the Chuckit! stick in the human’s hand — “Throw it! Throw it! Oh, my goodness, throw it! They’re NOT throwing it. I will try jumping on them. I will try…jumping up and biting the Chuckit! Maybe more barking.” <person throws the ball>

“Yes! It was the barking they liked! THAT got me the ball.” 

Be mindful of what behaviour you are rewarding. Often it is a behaviour we don’t love (like barking) that we are paying the dog for. 

It’s more fun to play with a balanced dog. Balanced dogs aren’t obsessed with toys. (Photo: Tan and White Pitbull mix lays on a beach with space between his human and his toy AND between himself and his toy

It’s more fun to play with a balanced dog. Balanced dogs aren’t obsessed with toys. (Photo: Tan and White Pitbull mix lays on a beach with space between his human and his toy AND between himself and his toy

Is it wrong to have your calm dog get excited while playing fetch? 

No. Of course not. As long as YOU are in control of the excitement. Think of your dog’s excitement like a bonfire. You can bring up the levels of excitement, just as long as you can also bring them back down again. You need to control the flames. 

What to do:  

Teach your dog to look at YOU instead of the ball. When he looks at you and gives you one moment of silence, say “Yes!” and throw the ball. 

“Yes,” is a command given to communicate two things: 

  1. You got it right.

  2. You’re free to go play now. 

What will help you achieve this goal faster? 

Your own energy. If we use the fire analogy, your excitement is gasoline on the flames. The more you amp up your dog with words: “Ready? Ready? Are ya ready, boy?” the more excited they will get. 

Try playing silently and being two things — calm and confident. That’s all you need to bring to the fetch game…that and a whole lot of JOY! 

Playing in a more structured way keeps the game challenging and fun for everyone (Photo: Rottweiler holding a ball jogs toward his person)

Playing in a more structured way keeps the game challenging and fun for everyone (Photo: Rottweiler holding a ball jogs toward his person)

Can you have a well-trained dog who is also balanced? 

Yes! This is what we’re aiming for. A well-trained and balanced dog FEELS good about the work they are doing. FEELS good about the world around them. 

Instead of forcing a fearful dog to learn to sit, work on achieving calmness and trust FIRST before caring about whether or not they can sit on command. A nervous, fearful dog sitting beside you, isn’t any better than a nervous, fearful dog standing beside you. They are still nervous and fearful. 

By learning dog psychology you will help your dog learn there’s nothing to be afraid of. Once they have confidence and aren’t afraid of leaves blowing, strollers, and skateboards THEN work on simple dog training commands. When you do it in that order (dog psychology and THEN dog training), suddenly dog training commands are insanely easy. WHY? Because your dog is calm, confident, and balanced. Can you learn when you’re shaking in fear? Nope. Neither can your dog. 

If you’re terrified of clowns and find math difficult, will I sit you in a room full of clowns to teach you math? No. I’ll help you overcome your fear of clowns and then teach you math once you’re calm. (Photo: scary clown)

If you’re terrified of clowns and find math difficult, will I sit you in a room full of clowns to teach you math? No. I’ll help you overcome your fear of clowns and then teach you math once you’re calm. (Photo: scary clown)

Be patient. Be calm. Never set a stopwatch to training a dog. 

Do your very best to become the calm and confident person that your dog needs. All they need is a leader (plus love, food, water, shelter, physical exercise, and mental challenge — those are givens, as you’re likely already providing all of those things.) The last puzzle piece to fall into place for many, many people is being calm and confident themselves. It’s harder than it sounds, but the ripple effect to your dog and other human relationships is well worth the effort. 

Your dog needs someone who can show them the world isn’t as scary as they think. That person can be you! 

Reward calmness more often. Give affection to your dog when they are in a calm state of mind, and they will begin to show you their calm self more often. 

If you pet them when they are hyper, they will show you hyper more often. 

Be mindful of what state of mind you reward. This is the way to a balanced dog (and a more balanced life for you as well!) 

Have a fantastic Friday, Dog Leaders! 

Alyssa 

Photos by: Jf Brou (white Siberian Husky laying down in front of a lake and mountains,) Chewy (person holding a treat up high, encouraging a black Lab to jump up for the treat,) Chewy (person gently taking a tennis ball from a Rottweiler’s mouth,) Laurie Gibson (Tan and White Pitbull mix lays on a beach with space between his human and his toy AND between himself and his toy — that is respect,) Sinitta Leunen (Rottweiler holding a ball jogs toward his person,) and Tom Roberts (scary clown.)

Tips for crowded hiking trails #thanksgiving

The trails are crowded on Thanksgiving weekend. Are you and your dog ready? (Photo: person hiking on a trail with their dog off leash and behind them)

The trails are crowded on Thanksgiving weekend. Are you and your dog ready? (Photo: person hiking on a trail with their dog off leash and behind them)

If your dog is reactive on leash (barks and growls and drags you toward other dogs and/or people,) hiking on Thanksgiving weekend may feel like a pipe dream. 

If you celebrate American Thanksgiving, you have time to prepare yourself and your dog for this challenge. 

If you celebrate Canadian Thanksgiving, there’s less time for prevention. 

Here are some tips to help friends on both side of the border. 

PREVENTION TIPS: 

One of the most common causes of leash reactivity is simply allowing your dog to walk in front of you and have the leadership role. 

When you are behind your dog, THEY deal with upcoming “threats”, not you. Pulling from behind on the leash creates tension and only makes a dog pull AGAINST the tension. That tension causes frustration. 

Leash tension leads to leash reactivity. Say no to leash tension. (Photo: pulling lab with pulling Weimaraner)

Leash tension leads to leash reactivity. Say no to leash tension. (Photo: pulling lab with pulling Weimaraner)

Teaching your dog a structured walk allows them to view YOU as their leader, not someone they feel the need to protect. You can learn how to do a structured walk here: https://beyonddogtraining.ca/news/give-your-dog-a-break

The structured walk is the cure for your shoulder and back pain. This type of walking stops your dog from pulling you, so your body can finally heal from all that jerking that’s been happening. It’s also a lot safer for you (I’ve seen people pulled into traffic!!! Have you?) 

Don’t be fooled by the beautiful sunset. This picture isn’t what you’re aiming for. (Photo: tall man wades in the water, being pulled by his three leashed dogs in the sunset)

Don’t be fooled by the beautiful sunset. This picture isn’t what you’re aiming for. (Photo: tall man wades in the water, being pulled by his three leashed dogs in the sunset)

PRO TIP: If you allow your dog to get away with EVERYTHING inside your home (and never listen to you), you will need to improve that relationship before tackling a structured walk in an area of high distraction. If they can ignore you when you say “Come,” inside your house, they will ignore you when you say “Come,” outside your house (where there’s more smells, sights, and sounds worth ignoring you for.) 

With your dog under control (and listening to you,) hiking on busy trails becomes a lot easier. 

If your dog has severe behavioural issues, there’s still time to work on those before American Thanksgiving. TAKE ACTION now and look forward to Thanksgiving hikes, instead of dreading them. You can schedule a FREE CALL or an ONLINE TRAINING SESSION no matter where you live.

Canadians are already hitting the hiking trails as we cruise into Thanksgiving weekend. Here are a few tips to help you navigate the crowded trails with your reactive dog(s): 

  1. WALK EARLY — Hiking trails are less busy early in the morning. If your dog is mildly leash reactive, head out early to avoid the rush. 

Wake up early and beat the rush (Photo: a couple crouch beside a river with their dog)

Wake up early and beat the rush (Photo: a couple crouch beside a river with their dog)

2. ADVOCATE FOR YOUR DOG — If your dog is fearful or aggressive toward other dogs, a busy hiking trail is not a FAIR location for you to bring them to. Working through these issues takes time. It’s okay to walk your dog in your own neighbourhood and then go on a family hike without them. Your job is to protect them and keep them safe and happy. If they (and you) won’t be happy on the hike, then it may be the kindest decision to leave them at home. You can work on these issues over the next few weeks and bring them on a celebratory hike in November instead. It’s okay not to be ready.

3. WHAT IS YOUR ENERGY? — Dogs will only follow CALM and CONFIDENT humans. If you are rushing to get a hike done and worried that your turkey might burn while you’re gone, your dog will sense that you need protection. Be calm and confident from the moment you wake up until the moment you fall asleep. That’s leadership and that’s what you signed up for when you got a dog instead of a cat. 

Are you the leader or a follower? (Photo: Alyssa Foulkes and her Rottweiler, Magic hiking on a trail. Magic is following behind Alyssa)

Are you the leader or a follower? (Photo: Alyssa Foulkes and her Rottweiler, Magic hiking on a trail. Magic is following behind Alyssa)

4. WATCH CLOSELY — If you are hiking with family and friends, you will likely be distracted (chatting more than directing your dog.) If your pack has lots of people and off leash dogs and collides with other big groups (this happens about every one to two minutes on Thanksgiving weekend in Ontario,) how will you respond? How will other humans in your group respond? How will the other dogs in the group respond? And how will your dog respond? You should know the answer to all of these questions. If you don’t know, you may leave the hike thinking “Out of nowhere there was this HUGE dog fight.” Dog fights NEVER happen out of nowhere. They happen because people missed dog body language that was SILENT and didn’t intervene in time. 

5. STRESS and SOCIAL DISTANCING — Some trails have a lot of choke points/bottlenecks where it’s difficult to maintain 6 feet of social distance. If this is going to stress you out (tromping off the trail into the trees every five seconds) don’t hit the trails. Dogs are INSTINCTUAL. They can’t rationalize “Mom’s annoyed because of COVID, or mom’s annoyed because the tree just scratched her.” They can only assume that what’s in front of you is stressing you out — the people and the other oncoming dogs. “I’ll take care of those things for you, mom.” BARK, BARK, BARK (Go away, my mom doesn’t like you,) OR (You’re still coming toward my mom and she’s tense, and barking isn’t working. I will proceed to the next step of growling, lunging, and biting.) None of their actions are out of nowhere. Their actions are because of YOU. Be calm. Be confident. Have less dog issues. 

Being calm and confident takes daily practice. It’s hard not to swear when someone cuts you off in traffic and it’s challenging not to feel stressed out during a pandemic. No one is saying it’s easy, but believe me — it’s worth living a more balanced and harmonious life. Your dog is showing you the way — live in the moment.

Be joyful. Find peace. Be grateful. You’ll be amazed at the effect it has on you, those around you, and your dog!

Happy Thanksgiving! I hope you have a safe and happy weekend with your favourite dogs and people! 

Alyssa

Photos by: Wilfried Santer (@wsanter) (person hiking on a trail with their dog off leash and behind them,)

 Jeffrey F Lin (pulling lab with pulling Weimaraner,) Mel Elías (tall man wades in the water, behind his three leashed dogs in the sunset,) Upsplash photo (a couple crouch beside a river with their dog,) Parry Bast (Alyssa Foulkes and her Rottweiler, Magic hiking on a trail. Magic is following behind Alyssa.)

How to Stop Your Puppy From Counter Surfing

(Photo: Siberian Husky eats a candlelight snack of bread and strawberries…on a table)

(Photo: Siberian Husky eats a candlelight snack of bread and strawberries…on a table)

You’ve prepared a fantastic meal, or simply set a steak out on the counter to thaw. You turn your back to open a bottle of wine, or ask the kids to set the table, and suddenly the steak is missing. By the time you locate your dog, all that’s left is a stain on the carpet. 

Let’s work on preventing this from EVER happening. 

Every time you pause to take a photo, you are missing a teachable moment (Photo: terrier with his head resting on a table full of food, drinks, dishes.)

Every time you pause to take a photo, you are missing a teachable moment (Photo: terrier with his head resting on a table full of food, drinks, dishes.)

The easiest way to raise a puppy who NEVER counter surfs, is to NEVER allow them the freedom to put their paws up there in the first place. How many pictures have you seen on social media of puppies on countertops and kitchen tables? Hundreds? More? While these photos may bring you “likes,” they also bring you YEARS of drama — because you have to LIVE with that puppy who you TAUGHT to go on kitchen tables and counter tops. 

The biggest mistake new puppy owners make is giving too much freedom too fast. Your new puppy should not have the run of your entire house. When they wander around unsupervised they will have accidents and they will put things in their mouths that they shouldn’t. If you aren’t with them, they will learn: “it’s okay to pee wherever I want” and “it’s okay to chew/eat whatever I want.” You need to supervise them at all times. Of course you need to shower and go to work, so this is where crate training comes into play. 

Crate training prevents your puppy from wandering around unsupervised and potentially eating something dangerous (that requires surgery to remove, or kills your puppy.) Dogs are naturally den animals, so instinctually they feel safe in a small space and they know not to go to the bathroom in there too. 

It’s easier to prevent counter surfing than it is to correct it later on (Photo: Cavalier King Charles Spaniel eating a large dinner roll)

It’s easier to prevent counter surfing than it is to correct it later on (Photo: Cavalier King Charles Spaniel eating a large dinner roll)

Becoming a pet parent is like becoming a teacher. Every moment in your puppy’s life is a teachable moment. It’s far easier to prevent bad behaviours (like counter surfing and peeing indoors) by simply never letting them happen in the first place. 

Counter surfing is an expensive habit to allow. Not only can your puppy eat your expensive meals and snacks, they can also eat the packaging. Vet bills are expensive. If you don’t know how to stop a puppy from counter surfing, you will also require a dog behaviour expert to teach you how to do it. Hopefully this blog post will help save you a LOT of money. 

Prevent your puppy from EVER needing painful surgery to remove packaging or harmful small bones (Photo: terrier mix wearing an Elizabethan collar)

Prevent your puppy from EVER needing painful surgery to remove packaging or harmful small bones (Photo: terrier mix wearing an Elizabethan collar)

If you prepare your dog’s meals on the counter, never allow them to jump up on you or the counter. Have them wait calmly on their bed, or just outside the kitchen. This will encourage good manners around your countertop from day one. 

Remember that everyone in the family needs to follow the same rules and boundaries that you have set for the dog. Being consistent is being fair (and kind) to your puppy. 

Struggling with counter surfing? This blog post may help: https://beyonddogtraining.ca/news/food-rewards-counter-surfing-and-your-dogs-weight

If you’re worried about your puppy’s safety and want help now, schedule a behavioural assessment today. Our assessment is called “Your Dog Would Choose This One” because it includes hands-on training that will get you started right away. Schedule your session here: https://beyonddogtraining.ca/take-action

Don’t send mixed messages to your dog. It isn’t fair — even on special occasions. (Photo: small dog sitting at a dining room table being served a birthday treat, complete with a candle)

Don’t send mixed messages to your dog. It isn’t fair — even on special occasions. (Photo: small dog sitting at a dining room table being served a birthday treat, complete with a candle)

Do you have a counter surfing story to share? This community is supportive and kind in the comments, so feel free to tell us your stories. We would love to hear from you! 

Wishing you a fabulous Friday, Dog Leaders! 

Alyssa

Photos by: Paul Trienekens (Siberian Husky eating a candlelight snack of bread and strawberries…on a table,) Daniel Brunsteiner (terrier with his head resting on a table full of food,) free stock photo (Cavalier King Charles Spaniel eating a large dinner roll,) Tatiana Rodriguez (terrier mix wearing an Elizabethan collar,) Joshua Chun (small dog sitting at a dining room table being served a birthday treat, complete with a candle.)