What all Puppy Owners Should Know

What all new puppy owners should know (Photo: woman holding two sleeping puppies)

What all new puppy owners should know (Photo: woman holding two sleeping puppies)

Your puppy isn’t a puppy for very long. The puppy stage lasts from birth to roughly six months of age. From six months until one to two YEARS of age, you have an ADOLESCENT. That’s a teenager. 

While they won’t slam doors or tell you that “you’re the worst mom EVER!” they will test you to see if you’re cut out to be their leader or just their littermate. They BITE their littermates, by the way. 

You have six to eight months to treat your puppy like a human baby/teddy bear OR to teach them how to behave calmly and politely in the human world — as a DOG. Most people, sadly, opt for option number one, because it fulfills a void in their lives. 

Whose needs are being met? (Photo: small dog sitting on a lap — dog and owner are wearing the same sweater)

Whose needs are being met? (Photo: small dog sitting on a lap — dog and owner are wearing the same sweater)

How about in this photo? (Photo: a puppy posed on a bed wearing a white bathrobe and “holding” a bottle of sparkling water)

How about in this photo? (Photo: a puppy posed on a bed wearing a white bathrobe and “holding” a bottle of sparkling water)

If you choose option one, your puppy will likely do at least five things off of this list: 

-bite you and your children

-bark at everything 

-cause you joint pain from pulling on walks

-take forever to house train

-scratch up your floors

-counter surf (steal food off of counters) 

-chase your kids, cats, and other pets

-destroy couches, remote controls, shoes, and purses

By the time they reach adolescence, they will be heavier, stronger, and have larger teeth. They will pull harder, bite harder, and those nails sure hurt when they jump up on everyone you know. 

By taking a photo instead of teaching your puppy not to eat the furniture, you are accepting that behaviour as okay. (Photo: Weimaraner puppy gnawing on the corner of a bed)

By taking a photo instead of teaching your puppy not to eat the furniture, you are accepting that behaviour as okay. (Photo: Weimaraner puppy gnawing on the corner of a bed)

If instead, you: 

-select a puppy who is the right energy match for you and your family

-set simple boundaries on day ONE of your relationship (when they are still with the breeder) 

-teach your puppy right from wrong on the FIRST day they are in your home (sure that photo of them on your kitchen counter at 8 weeks of age isn’t confusing to them at all, is it?!)

You will enjoy your puppy SO MUCH MORE (not only when they are a puppy, but through adolescence and adulthood.) 

To be clear, I’m not saying never put your dog on your lap or never show it affection. I’m warning the owners who ONLY give affection and NEVER meet their puppies’ needs (exercise, structure, rules, boundaries.) Remember: if you pause to take a photo of your puppy being naughty, you are missing the opportunity to teach them to NEVER do it again. Don’t be confusing to your puppy. It doesn’t make you a nicer pet parent. It makes you confusing.

If you read ANY social media thread where everyone vents about joint pain from pulling on walks, jumping up, counter surfing, destructive behaviour — you will feel like you’re not alone. Here’s the TRUTH — NONE OF THOSE THINGS EVER NEED TO HAPPEN AND I CAN HELP YOU PREVENT THEM ALL! 

Not being cocky. I’m just finally saying this out loud because I am so TIRED of reading threads where people’s answers to counter surfing is COMPRESSED AIR and LOUD NOISES…and their solution to too much barking is THROWING A CAN OF PENNIES NEAR THE DOG TO STARTLE THEM. 

STOP doing that and call me for advice. 

When your puppy reaches adolescence, it’s super common for this to happen: 

“Jenny, sit.” (You’ve taught her to sit in puppy school and she knows what it means…at least, you think she does.) 

Jenny doesn’t sit.

Person repeats the command. “Jenny, sit.” 

Person gets frustrated and either repeats the command louder, yanks the leash, or pushes the dog’s bum down. Sometimes all three. 

Jenny still doesn’t sit. 

Human gives up. Human gives Jenny a treat anyway and pets her (both of these are REWARDS, by the way.) 

Jenny is now the leader because the person didn’t follow through and rewarded noncompliance. 

How to solve this: 

1. Teach your puppy to sit in a variety of different places. If Jenny only knows how to sit in your kitchen when you have a cookie in your hand and are in front of her, she may not actually KNOW what SIT means (the word.) She knows what to do ONLY in your kitchen, when you stand in THAT position, and hold the cookie. Teach Jenny to sit in public places and don’t always stand in the same position. 

2. Change your mindset. Training isn’t WORK. It’s not sitting at a desk being bored all day. It’s fun. It’s active. And you get to spend positive time with your dog.

3. Bring your calm and confident self to the party every single day. This is harder than it sounds, so if you can’t muster it up for yourself on a daily basis, do it for your dog. You’ve got this! 

4. Sit isn’t the most important thing in dog training. Teaching your dog to be calm in public places is way more important. Sit can be taught at any time. It doesn’t have to be the first thing you teach your puppy just because everyone else is doing it. 

5. Learn to be more patient. Saying “sit!” (or, ahem, yelling it) seven times will never work because dogs will not follow humans (or other dogs) who are tense, frustrated, or angry. Go to the gym, practice yoga, or take a long walk BEFORE you interact with your dog. It all begins with YOU. 

It’s not going to get better with time (Photo: man with his hands on his Chow’s throat. The Chow is showing off his blue tongue. The man is wearing a watch.)

It’s not going to get better with time (Photo: man with his hands on his Chow’s throat. The Chow is showing off his blue tongue. The man is wearing a watch.)

It’s not going to get better with time. Your dog doesn’t turn two and magically become a perfect adult dog and “settle down.” 

Every dog is different. Dogs who seem to magically settle down at age two are likely the SAME or LOWER energy level than their owners. The owners likely dedicate a lot of time to training and exercise. They likely worked on their relationship (trust, respect, love) as opposed to simply ALWAYS petting their dog and rewarding hyper behaviour. 

There’s ALSO a temperament test that reputable breeders do to MATCH the right dog to the right family. Dogs fall in a range from 1 (very “drivey” - make great working dogs and show dogs) to #6 (aloof and don’t really require humans all that much.) Some people LUCK out (even without the test) and get a #4. Number 4’s make first-time dog owners look like ROCKSTARS because they are easier to train and eager to please. 

Is there a difference breed to breed? Yes…but this isn’t a novel. It’s a blog post, so I’d better go before you glaze over. 

If you’ve made mistakes (we all have) and want to get some help to stop the jumping up, yanking on the leash, and counter surfing, schedule a FREE call with me. I would LOVE To help you turn your “devil dog” (yes, I just read that on someone’s newsfeed!) into your DREAM DOG! 

Let us help your dog become your DREAM DOG (Photo: woman and dog sitting on a busy beach in the sunshine)

Let us help your dog become your DREAM DOG (Photo: woman and dog sitting on a busy beach in the sunshine)

Better yet, I’d love to help you and your family SELECT the right puppy/dog for your family and then help you PREVENT any of the bad stuff from EVER HAPPENING. 

Have an incredible weekend, Dog Leaders! 

Alyssa

Photos by: Anna Dudkova (woman holding two sleeping puppies,) FLOUFFY @theflouffy (small dog sitting on a lap — dog and owner are wearing the same sweater.) Roberto Nickson @rpnickson (a puppy posed on a bed wearing a white bathrobe and “holding” a bottle of sparkling water,) Nathalie SPEHNER @nathalie_spehner (Weimaraner puppy gnawing on the corner of a bed,) Omid Armin @omidarmin (man with his hands on his Chow’s throat. The Chow is showing off his blue tongue,) Alvin Balemesa @alnbal (woman and dog sitting on a busy beach in the sunshine,)







How YOUR Fear Affects YOUR Puppy

Did you KNOW that YOUR fear AFFECTS YOUR puppy? (Photo: pug wrapped in a blanket looking like very sad version of E.T.)

Did you KNOW that YOUR fear AFFECTS YOUR puppy? (Photo: pug wrapped in a blanket looking like very sad version of E.T.)

Are you nervous every time your new puppy says hello to a new dog friend? Do you hold your breath, worried that the other dog may hurt your puppy? Do you pull your new puppy away from other dogs? Pick them up? 

Here’s how all of those things are BAD for your puppy. 

FEAR. We live with too much fear. The media spreads it on your morning toast like peanut butter. We’re eating poison for breakfast, lunch, and dinner. If you aren’t fearful from watching the news, you’re afraid because of misinformation you consumed from online dog groups. You’re terrified of parvovirus, dog fights, and of your puppy getting stepped on by other dogs and people. 

If you bring a new puppy into your life and YOU are nervous, tense, and fearful about every interaction she has, she will become your pack leader. Most puppies are not born leaders, so they find this new job VERY stressful. They have to take care of YOU and protect YOU, and while you may feel all warm inside thinking about that — how about you imagine my client who recently allowed all of this behaviour and her puppy ended up biting EVERYONE who came near her. Kiss your family, friends, and dating life goodbye until you FIX what YOU okayed as cute. It’s costly, time consuming, and frustrating. Don’t go there. 

If your dog becomes your body guard, friends and family will have trouble getting close to you (Photo: woman on a couch holding a puppy over her face and kissing it)

If your dog becomes your body guard, friends and family will have trouble getting close to you (Photo: woman on a couch holding a puppy over her face and kissing it)

The very first thing you need to do before walking your puppy anywhere is BREATHE. You need to be a calm person for your puppy. You need to be a confident person for your puppy. If you can’t do it for yourself, do it for your puppy. They NEED you. You’ve got this! Calmness travels right down your leash — make sure your leash is nice and loose (no tension, no pulling.) 

Before introducing your puppy to other puppies, they should have had their first set of vaccinations. It’s okay to ASK approaching puppy and dog owners “Is your dog vaccinated?” BEFORE their dog is nose-to-nose with your puppy. Your puppy doesn’t have enough immunity yet — advocate for your puppy! 

Do NOT take your new puppy to a dog park. There will certainly be dogs who are not up to date in their vaccinations present. Dogs shed all sorts of things in their poop as well, so a sick dog doesn’t need to be present to make your puppy sick. Before this becomes a dog park blog post, I’ll say one more thing — most of the time, dog parks are full of dogs who are WAY too excited/aroused and excitement leads to dog fights.

Are dog parks safe for new puppies? That’s a no. (Photo: Pekingese dog stares through a fence)

Are dog parks safe for new puppies? That’s a no. (Photo: Pekingese dog stares through a fence)

Do NOT pick your puppy up EVERY time they meet a new dog. This is VERY DANGEROUS! Your puppy will learn that dogs make YOU nervous, and will defend you by growling down at other dogs. Some dogs won’t care. Some will. Those dogs can go after your puppy and your fingers will be right in the way. 

Dogs are not human babies. Cuddling is lovely, but be very careful doing this around dogs you don’t know. (Photo: woman cuddling a beagle while holding him like a baby)

Dogs are not human babies. Cuddling is lovely, but be very careful doing this around dogs you don’t know. (Photo: woman cuddling a beagle while holding him like a baby)

Do NOT pull your puppy away from every dog you meet. Putting tension on the leash sends the wrong signal to your puppy. They pull against what holds them back. It frustrates them and tells them “It’s go time!” They will keep pulling toward the dog you are trying to pull them away from. 

Instead, encourage your puppy to follow you away from dogs you don’t want to meet. Ask them to heel (if they know how,) or make a kissy noise to encourage them to look at you. Walk away with NO leash tension. You don’t have to meet and greet every dog you pass by. 

This is leash tension. Please stop doing this. (Photo: a dog on a leash with tension on the leash)

This is leash tension. Please stop doing this. (Photo: a dog on a leash with tension on the leash)

If you gasp every time your puppy meets/plays with a new dog (even YOUR own other dogs at home,) you are sending out a strong message to all of them that you are nervous and they have to sort it out ON THEIR OWN. Your own dog doesn’t want that pressure, and your new puppy certainly isn’t equipped to handle that either. Take a deep breath, relax your shoulders, stand straighter and BELIEVE that nothing bad with happen. You need to provide direction and protection for your new puppy. You WANT them to look at you before making terrible puppy decisions. 

Do NOT replay stories in your head about dog fights you have seen in the past. That happened BEFORE. You are here today in the PRESENT. 

Do NOT think “If my puppy gets stomped on or bitten, I’ll have to go to the vet and it’s after hours, so it’ll be closed and what will I do?” This is in the FUTURE. It hasn’t happened, so don’t worry about it. 

Living in the moment is the BEST gift your puppy could EVER give to you. Let them be your teacher, but NOT your leader. 

It’s okay to need help. If you’re nervous about introducing your puppy to other dogs, seek help from an expert. Read reviews before just selecting a random puppy kindergarten class. I’ve heard many horror stories from clients who went down this road before finding me. Some “trainers” will actually say “Let the puppies work it out on their own.” If you think the play is too rough, it probably is. Follow your gut instinct and leave (better yet read EVERY Google review BEFORE you sign up, and go attend a class before you even have your puppy…oh, and if a company won’t let you come for a drop in visit BEFORE you have your puppy, they don’t deserve your business. Shady with a capital S. 

Our in-home sessions provide help in the areas YOU need it. If you’ve aced crate training, but are struggling with leash walks, that is where we will focus our attention. If you’re nervous because your puppy whines and pulls toward other dogs, we’ll help you through it. 

While we’re exploring your neighbourhood together, we’ll teach you how to read approaching dogs, so you can understand dog body language and know which dogs will be well-behaved while greeting your new puppy, and which ones are too excited. Come learn with us! 

Are these three ready to meet your puppy? Come learn with us! (Photo: three dogs on leash)

Are these three ready to meet your puppy? Come learn with us! (Photo: three dogs on leash)

Before you schedule a FREE call with us, read all of our reviews too. Check out our TESTIMONIALS page here: https://beyonddogtraining.ca/testimonials

Find the BEST fit for YOU and YOUR PUPPY. We hope it’s us, because you read the entire blog post and that means you have patience (even if you never realized you had it!) We can’t WAIT to meet you and your puppy and help your relationship become harmonious! 

Have a wonderful weekend, Dog Leaders! 

Alyssa

Photos by: Matthew Henry (pug wrapped in a blanket looking like very sad version of E.T.,) Roberto Nickson (woman on a couch holding a puppy over her face and kissing it,) Marcelo Harassen (Pekingese dog stares through a fence,) Artem Beliaikin (woman cuddling a dog while holding him like a baby,) Mirko Sajkov (a dog on a leash with tension on the leash,) and Spencer Davis (three dogs on leash.)


ONLINE DOG TRAINING

How does online dog training work? (Photo: dog looking at a computer screen)

How does online dog training work? (Photo: dog looking at a computer screen)

You may be curious about how online dog training works. How can a trainer possibly fix your dog’s resource guarding issues from thousands of miles away?

And how are they going to get the sock out of Sandy’s mouth when they’re not physically here?!

Beyond Dog Training introduced online training long before the pandemic began. We’ve worked with clients in the USA, UK, and Canada, helping dogs and their people overcome difficult issues, like biting strangers, resource guarding, and house-breaking. 

How do we do it? 

How can I stand in my kitchen in Ontario, Canada and help a dog in California, USA stop nipping friends and family? How can I stop your dog in Scotland from playing keep-away and learn to drop it? 

Do I have a magic wand? 

Is it magic? (Photo: magic wand on a book)

Is it magic? (Photo: magic wand on a book)

No. 

It comes down to one word: 

Education. 

If you’re still reading, you’re like many of my clients who are unafraid of learning and even (gasp!) taking notes. These clients are curious about dog behaviour. They want to understand WHY their dog is biting everyone who tries to pet her, and they want the tools to FIX it. 

These clients have joined online dog groups and have been frustrated by all of the conflicting opinions (from dog owners, not dog behaviour experts.) 

These clients have searched through dozens of Youtube videos, only to find that all the trainers use different methods and none of them help THEIR dog’s individual needs. 

Does it feel like you spend  more time on Youtube searches to HELP your dog, than you actually spend WITH your dog? (Photo: woman with a cup of tea searches the internet)

Does it feel like you spend more time on Youtube searches to HELP your dog, than you actually spend WITH your dog? (Photo: woman with a cup of tea searches the internet)

If you’re looking for the tools to help you help your dog and need someone to teach them to you one-on-one, online sessions are for you. 

If you want someone to watch you interact with your dog in real time and then give you the tips you need on the spot, online sessions are for you. 

If you are a visual learner, online sessions are for you. 

Want to teach your dog “drop it,” “leave it,” or how to walk nicely on the leash? I’ll show you with my dog and then watch you practice with your own dog. 

In many ways online training is actually BETTER than in person because you have the added benefit of seeing the possibilities. You can SEE how a dog should behave before leaving her crate (calm,) when asked to leave a high-value butcher bone (responds immediately by walking away,) and around a playful cat (calm.)

You can see how to safely remove a food dish from a dog. You can learn how to stop your dog from stealing food off the countertop. You can find out how to get your dog to stop barking when someone rings the doorbell. 

Not only can you SEE what a calm, relaxed, and well-behaved dog looks like, you can practice right away with your own dog! 

So, you can practice asking your dog to get off of the couch and get immediate feedback from a behaviourist. It’s like watching a Youtube video that’s made just for YOU! 

It’s like watching a Youtube video that’s made just for YOU! (Photo: cat looking up at a dog)

It’s like watching a Youtube video that’s made just for YOU! (Photo: cat looking up at a dog)

Online dog training also allows clients to really focus on the task at hand. My online clients show up with their dog, a notepad, and a desire to learn. 

Do you HAVE to be a note-taker to benefit from online training? 

No. 

I’ve had online clients who have worked hands-on with their dog the entire time. Everyone’s learning style is different — and that is where Beyond Dog Training really shines. 

My background is education. Most, but not all of this, has been teaching veterinary students, undergraduates, and PhD candidates at the University of Guelph about everything from puppy socialization to how to give physical exams to dogs (and other species as well.) 

I’ve also taught in kindergarten classrooms, rock climbing gyms, and continuing education classrooms — ages four to eighty-four. 

I thrive on helping people reach THEIR goals. I don’t offer one-size-fits-all-dog training — the sessions are all unique because they are driven by YOU and your goals. 

If you’re struggling with a particular style of training, have had a trainer bad-mouth you and your dog when their ONLY method of training fails you and your dog, or you’re just tired of being confused, I’m likely the person who can help you succeed. 

Make sure we’re the right fit with a FREE phone call. Call LOTS of trainers and behaviourists and get a feel for them (their personality AND their training style.) You want to make the best choice for you and your dog. Training is expensive. Many of my new clients have spent hundreds (sometimes more) on dog training classes and in-home sessions that didn’t get them results. Take your time and check trainers out before committing to working with them. 

Schedule your free call today. 

Schedule your FREE phone call with Beyond Dog Training today! (Photo: happy woman grins at her cellphone)

Schedule your FREE phone call with Beyond Dog Training today! (Photo: happy woman grins at her cellphone)

What are YOUR goals? Post them in the comments below. I would love to hear what you would like to see more of. 

Have a fabulous Friday, Dog Leaders! 

Alyssa

Photos by: Kyle Hanson (dog looking at a computer screen,) Kenny Gaines (magic wand on a book,) Dai KE (woman with a cup of tea searches the internet,) Anusha Barwa (cat looking up at a dog,) Owen Beard (happy woman grins at her cellphone.)

HOW TO STOP BACKYARD BARKING

Frustrated by your dog’s backyard barkathon? Read on. (Photo: pitbull mix barking at a chainlink fence)

Frustrated by your dog’s backyard barkathon? Read on. (Photo: pitbull mix barking at a chainlink fence)

You’re in your backyard. You have a glass of wine and a new novel. Or perhaps it’s a workday and you would love nothing more than to create an outdoor office space. 

Your dog has different ideas. 

Your backyard backs onto a walking path. Dogs and people parade past at all hours. Your dog sprints to the fence every time someone passes by. 

People give you that “why’s your dog a psycho?” look. 

Look familiar? This makes Zoom meetings tough! (Photo: Boxer on guard looking out a window — standing ON the couch)

Look familiar? This makes Zoom meetings tough! (Photo: Boxer on guard looking out a window — standing ON the couch)

And then there’s the people passing the FRONT of the house. Your dog barks at them too, even though he can’t SEE them. He charges to your side gate and shows his nasty side. 

An hour later, you’re still on page one of your book, or looking at the email you were typing for work. Half of a sentence and a blinking cursor. 

“Why is HE so crazy?” you think. 

First of all, let’s stop labelling the dog. He’s not crazy. Let’s figure out WHY he’s barking so much. 

Some people believe that you can simply IGNORE a dog’s bad behaviour and that it will go away. This is FALSE. If you simply allow your dog to charge fences and bark and NEVER interrupt that behaviour, it will continue to happen. 

I recently had the opportunity to learn from renowned trainer Joel Silverman. During a live interview, he said it best: “The completion of a behaviour IS the reward.” 

What does that mean? It means that fence running and barking feels awesome to your dog and EVERY time they do it is a reward to them. Just finishing the task of fence-barking is reward enough to them. 

Why yelling at your dog never works: When you yell “Hugo! Quiet. Please stop barking. HEY! AH AH! Get over here,” you are joining in the barkfest. Dog behaviour issues are rarely solved with SOUND. Think of a mother dog. She gives many SILENT signals and warnings to her puppies when she’s teaching manners. She rarely has to growl at them. 

How many of your human relationships are improved by yelling? It doesn’t work with dogs either. 

Shouting at dogs never works. (Photo: man yelling into cellphone)

Shouting at dogs never works. (Photo: man yelling into cellphone)

If you’re struggling with fence barking, don’t yell. You’ll have to turn down your frustration dial to ZERO too, or you’ll never fix the problem. Dogs will not listen to people who are frustrated, angry, tense, nervous, or fearful. Also, if your dog doesn’t listen to you INSIDE the home, they definitely won’t listen to you OUTSIDE the home. Outside has WAY more distractions than inside. So, if you’re going to solve the fence barking issue, you’ll need to start asking  your dog to listen to you inside your home first. 

Drain your dog’s excess energy before you begin training. Do you want an exhausted dog? No. You want a fulfilled dog. If your dog is very high energy, take them for a bike ride, rollerblade, run, or fetch session. If your dog is medium energy, they may only require a thirty minute walk instead of a run. Be sure that the walks you are taking are structured, because if they’re not, then that is just one more activity you’re doing that is cementing in a dog who doesn’t listen to anything you say. They shouldn’t be zigzagging in front of you, or yanking you toward everything they want to smell. 

Exercise your dog before your training session. Don’t exhaust them, find the sweet spot. (Photo: German Shepherd running through autumn leaves)

Exercise your dog before your training session. Don’t exhaust them, find the sweet spot. (Photo: German Shepherd running through autumn leaves)

If you never walk your dog it will be VERY challenging for you to stop fence barking. They require daily exercise. Pent up energy from never being walked comes out in ways people don’t like (barking, sock stealing, chewing, etc.) 

Dogs also require mental stimulation. This can be achieved in loads of fun and creative ways. I like nosework because it’s fun and dogs love it too! You can hide their food around your home and encourage them to sniff it out. I like to hide Magic’s food inside toys, underneath towels, and in cardboard boxes. 

Notice how we aren’t standing at the fence and yelling right now? This is more fun, isn’t it? 

Dogs are a JOY. When we provide them with exercise, leadership, and love, they give us their trust, respect, and love in return. 

If you aren’t providing them with what THEY need, they won’t provide you with backyard silence. 

If your dog barks inside when people pass the front of the house, this is a great opportunity for YOU to practice calmness. It is a GREAT teaching moment for your dog. It’s all mindset. 

Walk to YOUR front door with confidence. Ask your dog to back up using only your body language (stand tall and point, snap your fingers once if you need to.) They won’t know what you’re doing the first time, so you may have to provide another command, like “Bed,” or “Place,” to send them to a place they are comfortable. Remember to reward that behaviour verbally. “Good bed,” or “Good place.” 

Don’t forget to praise GOOD behaviour. How else will your dog know what behaviour you DO like? (Photo: dog laying on his bed calmly.)

Don’t forget to praise GOOD behaviour. How else will your dog know what behaviour you DO like? (Photo: dog laying on his bed calmly.)

Tips and Tricks: Chewing a delicious bone is a great activity that your dog will enjoy. Most dogs will happily leave the door barking activity to return to their yummy bone. You may need to repeat this door claiming activity many, many times (especially if your dog has been practicing this for many, many years.) Stick to it and remember that you need to LEAD your dog ALL DAY EVERY DAY in order for them to view you as a leader. You can’t simply own the front door of your house and solve all the problems. You need to claim your backyard fence, your space, your kitchen counters, your kid’s socks, your dog toys, your furniture, and your cats. Your dog doesn’t own these things and doesn’t need to protect them 24-7 — YOU DO. 

When your dog is listening to you inside your home (when you say “off,” they get off the couch; when you say “leave it,” they don’t touch the food that has fallen onto the floor) try claiming your backyard fence, the same way you claimed the front door. This lets your dog know that you are responsible for the yard and his job is to relax, play, or nap. 

Lead on, Dog Leaders! And have a wonderful weekend! 

Alyssa

Osvaldo Florez (pitbull mix barking at a chainlink fence,) Nathalie SPEHNER (Boxer on guard looking out a window,) christian buehner (man yelling into cellphone,) tiim (German Shepherd running through autumn leaves,) and Matthew Hamilton (dog laying on his bed calmly.)

HELP FOR YOUR FEARFUL NEW RESCUE DOG

If your new rescue dog has behavioural issues, get them help early. Don’t wait! (Photo: Pomeranian with whale eye)

If your new rescue dog has behavioural issues, get them help early. Don’t wait! (Photo: Pomeranian with whale eye)

Your new rescue dog is an absolute sweetheart! She sat in the backseat with your kids the whole way home, she walks pretty well on the leash, and shows no interest in squirrels. 

The foster family said she’s great around food, bones, and toys. They told you she loves dogs, cats, and strangers. 

She seems a little fearful of your cats. You film a video of her hiding behind your legs when the cats walk by. That’s cute. Right? 

The first day seems like a dream. Until you walk her in the dark. 

She seems terrified of the darkness, men, blowing leaves, and her own shadow. (Photo: Shiba Inu Husky Mix on a chain in the darkness)

She seems terrified of the darkness, men, blowing leaves, and her own shadow. (Photo: Shiba Inu Husky Mix on a chain in the darkness)

At first, you think it’s nothing. “She’s a little velcro dog,” you think. “She loves me so much.” You smile. 

As you approach a tall man in the darkness, she seems even more nervous. He moves over to give you more space. She lunges at him anyway and tries to nip his ankles. 

“Sorry. She’s a rescue,” you say. He’s already gone. You add in the darkness, “I’ve only had her a couple of hours.”  

You keep walking, but your heart is racing. Was she abused by a man before? She seemed fine with her foster “dad.” “She must have been abused before that,” you think.  

The following day, she growls at your husband when he comes home from work. 

You tell yourself, “She’s already protecting me. She loves me.” Secretly, you think, “I kind of like that she likes me more than my husband.” 

If you’ve thought any one of those thoughts, you need to stop reading and call a behaviourist who understands dog psychology immediately. Right now. I wish I were joking. I have seen countless fearful rescue dogs become even more fearful and insecure by being secretly loved for being fearful and protective. 

It is a dangerous and extremely slippery slope you are sliding down. It can lead to bites. It can lead to your dog refusing to allow strangers into the home (your family and friends + your children’s friends - these are strangers to your new dog.) It can lead to you giving the dog away to the humane society, or WORSE - it can lead to you having to euthanize your new dog because it bit a child in the face. I have seen all of this happen. It is heartbreaking! 

If your dog bites your child you will be faced with a horrible dilemma (Photo: crying toddler reaches forward with outstretched hands)

If your dog bites your child you will be faced with a horrible dilemma (Photo: crying toddler reaches forward with outstretched hands)

Schedule a FREE 15 minute phone call with us TODAY if you are struggling with a fearful rescue dog.

The following day, your rescue dog is facing off with the dog who lives next door. They could wake the dead with their barking, snarling, and growling through the fence. 

Fast forward a few more days and this sweet rescue that you brought home is now barking and lunging at your children’s friends as they race up the driveway and sprint through your house. 

Inside the home, she’s no longer afraid of the cats, but chasing them. 

She isn’t walking nicely on the leash anymore either. She’s pulling you every which way, not listening when you say “sit,” and when she’s not barking at other dogs, she’s whining. 

Fast forward a few more days and your nine-year-old niece gets bitten while visiting your house.  

A few days after that and you can’t hug your own children without the dog trying to bite them. Truth is stranger than fiction people. I’ve seen this happen too. 

The best advice I can provide you with is that you should call for help NOW before you let these things happen. You have the chance right now to prevent these disasters from ever occurring. 

Drop what you’re doing and search online for some help (Photo: woman perched on the bow of a sailboat with a laptop on her lap)

Drop what you’re doing and search online for some help (Photo: woman perched on the bow of a sailboat with a laptop on her lap)

You may find solace in online dog groups. People will tell you that it’s only been a couple of days and to allow your dog time to settle in. This advice is terrible. It only takes one or two weeks for a new rescue dog to COMPLETELY take over your house. They will own your house, your yard, your children, and you. By the time you call someone for help, it will cost you more money and take more time to fix the issue. 

What to do? Go online right now and search for dog behaviourists who have experience in this area. Read their Google Reviews. Read the testimonials on their website. And then CALL THEM. Interview them on the phone. Just because they helped your friend’s puppy in puppy class three years ago doesn’t mean they can help you in your home with your three-year-old rescue from the Bahamas who is biting and snapping at strangers. 

One of my clients interviewed FIFTEEN behaviourists and trainers before finding me. I was the ONLY one who was honest with them about how long it might take them to reach their particular goal (their new rescue dog had gone for the throat of one of their other dogs, and they had removed that dog from their pack with hopes of reintroducing her at a later date.) 

Every other trainer told them that they would be able to reunite the pack within a couple of hours! 

Hours! 

Even if YOU as a trainer or behaviourist could rehabilitate all three dogs in a couple of hours, you absolutely could NOT help the human family (and their cat) maintain what you had started. It takes time to teach. It takes time to learn. 

What should you do now? 

Breathe. 

Your dog can sense your stress, but has no idea WHAT is causing it. So, if your cat strolls into the room and you hold your breath and imagine the dog tearing the cat into pieces, you will set the dog off on the cat. Dogs can’t rationalize. They can’t understand that you’re worried because of something they MIGHT do. They see that every time the cat comes near the human, the human gets tense and nervous. And then they help take care of the problem by not letting the cat near you. They do this with people too, so do your best not to tense up when your son’s friends arrive at the house. 

Breathe. 

You’ve done a wonderful thing. You’ve rescued a dog. So what if you don’t know how to make her stop growling at your friends. Hire someone who knows how to do that AND can teach YOU how to do it. Listen to everything they say and practice as much as they ask you to practice. You’ve got this! 

You CAN do this! (Photo: woman smiling as she hangs out with a brown and white dog on leash,)

You CAN do this! (Photo: woman smiling as she hangs out with a brown and white dog on leash,)

Will EVERY rescue dog be this fearful? No. 

Will EVERY rescue dog completely take over your house? That depends. If you selected the correct energy level of dog (a dog that has an energy level that is the same or LESS than you and your family,) you fulfill THEIR needs before your own EVERY SINGLE DAY, and everyone in the house (including the children) is consistent with the dog’s rules and boundaries (AKA everyone in the family is a leader in the dog’s eyes) then no, the dog will not take the leadership role in your home. 

Owning a dog is a lot of responsibility and a lot of work. Adopting a rescue dog with behavioural issues can be very rewarding, but it’s certainly more work for inexperienced owners. If you’re willing to learn about dog behaviour and put in the time, you can certainly become a knowledgable dog lover.

Just breathe. 

And then call some behaviourists. I hope you call me! 

Happy interviewing, Dog Leaders! 

Alyssa

Photos by: Michelle Tresemer (Pomeranian with whale eye,) Tom Lowen Morales (Shiba Inu Husky Mix on a chain in the darkness,) Zach Kadolph (crying toddler reaches forward with outstretched hands,) Damir Spanic (woman perched on the bow of a sailboat with a laptop on her lap,) and Cassiano Psomas (woman smiling as she hangs out with a brown and white dog on leash.)

To Couch, or not to Couch?

To Couch, or not to Couch? That is the question. (Photo: white bulldog on lavish couch with throw pillows)

To Couch, or not to Couch? That is the question. (Photo: white bulldog on lavish couch with throw pillows)

Dog lovers have friendly debates about treats, favourite products to remove the dreaded smell of skunk, and even which veterinarian is the best in town. But there’s usually no debating when it comes to whether or not they allow dogs on the furniture or not. 

Some people LOVE having their dog on the couch. They love to snuggle up with their dog and watch a movie, take naps with them, and post pictures on social media. 

Do you let your dog on the couch? (Photo: terrier sleeping on a red pillow on a couch)

Do you let your dog on the couch? (Photo: terrier sleeping on a red pillow on a couch)

Other people wouldn’t dream of allowing their dog on the couch. Some don’t want their couch to get dirty, while others may simply not have enough room to accommodate all three Great Danes, plus their human family, and two cats. 

One thing to ask yourself (and be honest here) is who owns the couch? 

That seems like a no-brainer. You BOUGHT the couch, right? So it’s obviously YOURS. 

If that’s the case, you should be able to ask your dog to get off the couch (and your lap) right now and have them listen right away. Can you do that? 

What about when your friends come over? Or your mom, who is a little scared of dogs. Does your dog walk overtop of them? Growl? 

What about when your dog is sitting on your lap and someone else comes to sit beside you? Does your dog growl at them? Snap? Bite? 

Will your dog readily share the couch with your guest? (Photo: Man pressing his hand onto a dog’s chest. The dog is laying on the couch and the man is sitting down beside him. The man has very little room.)

Will your dog readily share the couch with your guest? (Photo: Man pressing his hand onto a dog’s chest. The dog is laying on the couch and the man is sitting down beside him. The man has very little room.)

Here are some simple tips that you can practice right now to help reclaim YOUR couch. Remember: Be safe! If you think you need a behaviourist or trainer to show you how it’s done, call in some help. You wouldn’t hesitate to hire a piano teacher to teach your daughter to play the piano. It’s okay not to know how to be a dog trainer. 

  1. INVITE: When your dog is on the ground, pat the couch and invite them to join you. You should only invite a nice, calm dog up into your personal space. You can pair a word with patting the couch, if you like - for example, you could say: “Sally, up.” <Sally jumps onto the couch> “Good up.” By repeating the word “up,” you are communicating more clearly to Sally. 

  2. OFF: A lot of people find it easier to teach the OFF command while standing. Stand beside the couch, say “Sally, off,” and toss a tiny treat onto the floor. When she moves off, say “Good off.” You don’t need to use food. If your dog already listens to you, you may be able to simply point at the ground and say “off.”  

Practice up and off together for five to ten minutes a day and see if you notice a difference in your relationship with your dog. When you practice ANY trick with your dog, be sure that you are in a positive state of mind. You want to share calmness and confidence with them. Think of a teacher you had in school who was far too strict and made learning a chore. Don’t be THAT teacher. Have rules and boundaries, but be joyful as well. 

To quote from Alice in Wonderland: “No room. No room.” Is there room for you on YOUR couch? (Photo: GSD and Pit-X lounge on the couch)

To quote from Alice in Wonderland: “No room. No room.” Is there room for you on YOUR couch? (Photo: GSD and Pit-X lounge on the couch)

Whether you want to allow your dog on the couch or not is up to you. Be sure that every roommate and/or family member is aware of your decision, so that everyone in the household is consistent. 

If you are struggling with a dog who doesn’t listen to you and would like to learn how to claim your couch, schedule your FREE phone call with us today. We LOVE helping people reach their dog goals! 

Have a wonderful weekend, Dog Leaders!

Alyssa

Photography by: Paolo Nicolello (white bulldog on lavish couch with throw pillows,) watcharlie (dog on red “ON” pillow on a couch), Oliver Engel (man pressing his hand onto a dog who lays on a couch,) and Cori Sears (GSD and Pit-X lounge on the couch.)

SWIMMING TIPS FOR DOGS

“Come on in. The water’s fine!” (Photo: two dogs enjoying a swimming pool)

“Come on in. The water’s fine!” (Photo: two dogs enjoying a swimming pool)

Swimming is a great way to exercise your dog. A lot of people have an easier time teaching their dog to swim using a river or lake that has a sloping shoreline. Some dogs have trouble learning if there are large waves, so aim for a calm day if you’re on a very large lake or going to the ocean. 

Start small. Play with your dog on the shoreline or a wading pool in your yard (Photo: two sleek grey dogs prance along the shoreline)

Start small. Play with your dog on the shoreline or a wading pool in your yard (Photo: two sleek grey dogs prance along the shoreline)

Magic learned to swim in a swimming pool. The tricky part about this, is that dogs don’t know there is a step in the shallow end. We know it’s there, so we expect them to simply hop down onto it and swim away, but dogs need to be shown that the step exists before they can learn to use it. 

Is there another stair over here? (Photo: Magic the Rottweiler stands on the top step of the shallow end of the swimming pool, reaching ahead of her with one paw)

Is there another stair over here? (Photo: Magic the Rottweiler stands on the top step of the shallow end of the swimming pool, reaching ahead of her with one paw)

In time, your pup will learn to use the step to rest and to exit the pool (Photo: Magic the Rottweiler swims back to the step in the shallow end carrying her ball in her mouth)

In time, your pup will learn to use the step to rest and to exit the pool (Photo: Magic the Rottweiler swims back to the step in the shallow end carrying her ball in her mouth)

Here are a few tips to help your puppy or dog learn to love swimming with you: 

  1. POSITIVE — You wouldn’t appreciate learning to swim by being thrown off the dock (this happened to my father’s best friend, and trust me, it wasn’t cool!) If you have a new puppy, take your time introducing them to water and make sure that the experience is positive. You can even begin with a wading pool at home. Use a few liver treats and their favourite toy to entice them into the water. They don’t have to swim on day one, they simply need to learn that water is fun. This also makes bath time a LOT better, so really take your time here and enjoy yourself. Your puppy will enjoy it too. 

  2. SOUND — Humans use a lot of sound energy. We talk in excited voices and when we get impatient or frustrated it comes out in our voice too. The last thing you want to do is to teach your dog that water/swimming/bath time makes his human tense/excited/frustrated. Begin working with your dog around water when you are in a calm and confident state of mind. Your dog’s natural curiosity will draw them to you. If you wade along the shore, they will likely follow you and get their feet wet too. If you begin swimming, many dogs will simply follow along and join you. 

Dogs follow leaders (Photo: dog following a surfer toward the ocean)

Dogs follow leaders (Photo: dog following a surfer toward the ocean)

3. DON’T PANIC — If you’re training your dog to swim in a swimming pool, do not panic if they fall in. Calmly and SILENTLY join them in the pool. By the time you react, they will likely already be above the water and attempting an awkward doggy paddle. A new puppy may require a hand under their belly as they figure it out, a new rescue dog may just simply begin swimming. Move calmly toward the stairs in the shallow end. Your puppy or dog will most likely feel the stairs beneath their feet and use them to get out. Don’t make a fuss. If you freak out, yank them out of the pool, repeatedly say “It’s okay baby. I’m so sorry, I’m so sorry,” then you will teach them that water is something to be avoided at all cost. If you spend the rest of the day holding your breath every time they approach the edge of the pool, worrying that they may fall in again, you will begin cementing the idea that the pool is dangerous. 

If your dog loves fetch, you can use that to teach them to love the water (Photo: Irish Setter retrieving a tennis ball out of a lake)

If your dog loves fetch, you can use that to teach them to love the water (Photo: Irish Setter retrieving a tennis ball out of a lake)

If your dog is barrel-chested (Rottweiler, Boxer, Bulldog,) invest in a life jacket. Magic can swim without it, but over time gets lower and lower in the water as she returns with her ball. The life jacket allows her to swim much longer, which is awesome because I could happily play with her by (or in) the water for hours. 

Magic the Rottweiler playing fetch in a lake wearing her life jacket

Magic the Rottweiler playing fetch in a lake wearing her life jacket

Be patient with your dog as she learns to swim. You didn’t learn in one day either.

Good luck, be safe, and have fun!! 

Alyssa

Photos by: Alyssa Foulkes (Magic the Rottweiler swimming in a lake carrying her favourite toy,) Gayatri Malhotra (two dogs enjoying a swimming pool,) Nathalie SPEHNER (two sleek grey dogs prance along the shoreline,) Alyssa Foulkes (Magic the Rottweiler stands on the top step of the shallow end of the swimming pool, reaching ahead of her with one paw,) Alyssa Foulkes (Magic the Rottweiler swims back to the step in the shallow end,) Taylor Deas-Melesh (dog following a surfer toward the ocean,) Ryan Stone (Irish Setter retrieving a tennis ball out of the water,) Alyssa Foulkes (Magic the Rottweiler playing fetch in a lake wearing her life jacket.)

Separation Anxiety

Take the stress out of crate training (Photo: black pug in crate)

Take the stress out of crate training (Photo: black pug in crate)

You’ve tried everything you’ve read and watched on the internet, but your puppy still barks every time you leave him in his crate — even for a second. It’s stressful. It’s LOUD. It’s heartbreaking! 

You’re worried about complaints from your neighbours. You’re worried about getting evicted. You’re worried about what you’re going to do with your puppy when you head back to work in a few days — cuz there’s no way you’re leaving them in the crate for eight hours, with a five minute pee break on your lunch hour. 

If you’re stressed out about crate training. You’re not alone. Hop on any number of dog groups on social media and you’ll learn that crate training is always on the tip of everyone’s tongue. 

You’ll read recipes for frozen Kong treats, you’ll spend lots of money on bones (often sniffed once and then ignored,) and you may even have a trainer come to your home…and tell you you’re being dramatic?!?! This actually happened to one of my clients. I’m grateful she was still brave enough to reach out to me after going through that! 

You may feel like you’ll never convince your puppy to love their crate, but you CAN do it! (Photo: tan-coloured Whippet lies on a sofa covered with a blanket)

You may feel like you’ll never convince your puppy to love their crate, but you CAN do it! (Photo: tan-coloured Whippet lies on a sofa covered with a blanket)

Why isn’t the crate training working? And why isn’t the medication your veterinarian prescribed working either? 

Here are five things to try, when you’ve tried it all: 

  1. CALMNESS — Believe it or not, your own body language and energy have an effect on your puppy. When you begin crate training, treat it as a fun game and enjoy yourself. Put yummy treats inside the crate (where they can easily reach them from the outside) and praise your puppy for being brave enough to simply put her front paws in the crate. Once this is going well, place a few treats (or pieces of kibble) further back. Praise your puppy for retrieving those treats. If your crate has two doors, make a fun game of going in one door and out the other. Do not get a stop watch and drink a glass of worry-juice before you begin crate training. Take your time and enjoy the process. 

  2. FOLLOWING — Does your puppy follow you everywhere you go, including the bathroom? Encourage their independence, by asking them not to follow you everywhere. This behaviour is a symptom of a bigger problem. If your puppy spends 30 minutes following you as you get ready for work, they will still be in follower-mode when you toss the peanut butter Kong in the crate and quickly shut the door. This creates stress for your puppy. Ask your puppy to lie on their bed or go to their place (if you’re using the place command) while you brush your teeth and do your hair. You can even provide them with a bone to chew, so they aren’t obsessively watching you get ready.

Teach your puppy to relax and be calm while you prepare to leave the house (Photo: a bulldog lays on his bed with his chin propped up on the edge)

Teach your puppy to relax and be calm while you prepare to leave the house (Photo: a bulldog lays on his bed with his chin propped up on the edge)

3. BELIEVE — Believe that you can do this, because you can. Put in the time and reap the reward of a balanced, calm puppy (who then grows up to be a balanced, calm dog.) It’s totally worth it! 

4. RESEARCH — Breeders who breed dogs to improve the breed, do not sell puppies on Kijiji or in parking lots. They do lots of amazing things while the puppies are in their care, including crate training. Puppies sleep in a cute pile with their mom when they are very young. After weaning, they sleep as a pack with their brothers and sisters. Amazing breeders will actually take the time to teach the puppies to sleep in crates. They begin with sleeping in pairs and then move them into their own crates gradually (still beside their siblings for company.) 

5. LEADERSHIP — Take your puppy on a structured walk first thing in the morning before you go to work. This tires out your puppy physically AND mentally (because a structured walk involves more thinking than dragging you down the sidewalk in a zigzag pattern.) A puppy who has HIS needs met before you go to work, is a puppy who will happily snooze for a few hours in a crate. You can read more about structured walks and how fun they are here: https://beyonddogtraining.ca/news/give-your-dog-a-break

Here is a picture of sixteen-week-old Braxton taking his very first nap in his crate. This was a HUGE milestone for him.

Believe in yourself. You and your puppy can do this! (Photo: French Bulldog X English Bulldog puppy takes his first nap in his crate)

Believe in yourself. You and your puppy can do this! (Photo: French Bulldog X English Bulldog puppy takes his first nap in his crate)

Always leave your puppy with a chew toy that is safe and arrange for someone you trust to walk them partway through the day. Be sure that the person who is letting them out for you has a solid understanding of dog behaviour (so they don’t accidentally make your separation anxiety case worse than it already is.) 

Good luck, have fun, and you’ve got this!!

Alyssa

Photos by: Charles Deluvio (black pug in crate,) Juan Gomez (tan-coloured Whippet lies on a sofa covered with a blanket,) Sébastien LAVALAYE (a bulldog lays on his bed with his chin propped up on the edge,) Alyssa Foulkes (French Bulldog X English Bulldog puppy takes his first nap in his crate.)

HOW TO INTRODUCE YOUR DOG TO YOUR NEW HOME: PART 2

Is your dog ready for moving day? (Photo: small dog stands on grass in front of a house)

Is your dog ready for moving day? (Photo: small dog stands on grass in front of a house)

Are you moving soon? If so, you’re most likely stressed out. If you want to know how to keep yourself and your dog stress-free leading up to moving day, check out last week’s blog: https://beyonddogtraining.ca/news/how-to-introduce-your-dog-to-your-new-home-part-1

If you’re worried about how your dog will react to your new home, you’re in the right place. 

Will your dog be stressed out on moving day? Do they hate car rides? Is the only place they’ve ever been their own backyard (and the veterinarian?) What about the new home? Do you feel badly because you’ve downsized and are afraid they might miss their yard? Are you super excited to introduce your dog to the new swimming pool, but kind of scared because they don’t really know how to swim? 

You want your dog to feel happy and relaxed on moving day. A lot of people think that talking in a high-pitched voice and tossing treats into the backseat like strange confetti, will make their dog feel at ease. This actually has the opposite effect, by making an excited dog more excited and a fearful dog more confused and afraid. 

Talking in a high-pitched voice may make you feel better, but it doesn’t help your dog feel calm (Photo: Pomeranian with whale eye)

Talking in a high-pitched voice may make you feel better, but it doesn’t help your dog feel calm (Photo: Pomeranian with whale eye)

Here are a few steps to make moving day easier on everyone: 

  1. EXERCISE - Your dog needs daily exercise and so do you. Take a structured walk first thing in the morning on moving day. What’s a structured walk?  In a nutshell, a structured walk looks like this: You lead the way, your dog follows beside/slightly behind you, and you allow them to take sniff breaks, bathroom breaks, and bounce-around-chasing-butterfly breaks. Read more here: https://beyonddogtraining.ca/news/give-your-dog-a-break

  2. BREATHE - Your dog picks up your vibe. If you’re sitting in the front seat worrying about traffic, unpacking, and whether or not your dog will eat dinner in the new house or not, your dog will sense your nervousness and happily take over the leadership role in your relationship. This could look like: herding the children when you reach your destination, barking at strangers and dogs who come over to the house to meet you, or chasing the cat all over the new apartment. Not cool. Try to enjoy the car ride — unroll the windows and breathe the fresh air, listen to music, or play a fun game with your kids. 

Relax and enjoy the ride. Your calm energy will be passed along to your dog. (Photo: woman in the passenger seat with her head and arm stretching out of the window)

Relax and enjoy the ride. Your calm energy will be passed along to your dog. (Photo: woman in the passenger seat with her head and arm stretching out of the window)

3. WALK - When you arrive to your new home, walk your dog around the property and the neighbourhood. This allows them to burn off energy from the car ride and to be introduced to their new environment calmly. 

Walk your dog BEFORE introducing them to your new house (Photo: person walking a white French Bulldog in front of a bright yellow house)

Walk your dog BEFORE introducing them to your new house (Photo: person walking a white French Bulldog in front of a bright yellow house)

4. FIRST - It’s not a race, but you need to enter the house first. Dogs view the world differently than we do. 

5. CALM and CONFIDENT - The easiest way for your dog to feel calm and secure about moving day is for everyone in his human family to be calm and confident. The quote from the Navy Seals: “Calm breeds calm, panic breeds panic,” may help you to visualize the situation. If I walk into an elevator and begin pacing, acting nervous, and wringing my hands together, how will you feel? Panicked. If instead, I walk into the elevator and give you a confident smile, nod my head, and mind my own business, you will feel calm. Your dog is a master of reading your moods and feelings. Work hard to find happiness and balance in your life, and then watch your dog’s behaviour adjust like magic in front of your eyes.  

Calm breeds calm (Photo: Yellow Lab relaxes on his owner’s legs.)

Calm breeds calm (Photo: Yellow Lab relaxes on his owner’s legs.)

If you’re stressed out because your dog barks at everyone who walks by your current house, guards the fence in the backyard like a police dog, and won’t get off the couch when you ask them to, there’s still hope. Leadership doesn’t happen overnight. If you’re moving and want to prepare yourself, your family, and your dog for this big change, call a dog behaviourist and begin working on any issues you and your dog are currently facing at least one month in advance of the move.

Any behaviourist or trainer worth their salt will help you gain the leadership role in your household before you move, and equip you with a game-day strategy for moving day that works best for your unique lifestyle. 

We hope that you enjoy moving day and that you have fun exploring your new neighbourhood with your dog. 

Alyssa

Photos by: Natalia Shiel (small dog stands on grass in front of a house,) Michelle Tresemer (Pomeranian with whale eye,) averie woodard (woman in the passenger seat with her head and arm stretching out of the window,) Harry Cunningham (person walking a white French Bulldog in front of a bright yellow house,) and Taylor Kopel (yellow lab relaxes on his owner’s legs.)

HOW TO INTRODUCE YOUR DOG TO YOUR NEW HOME: PART 1

Moving is stressful. Let’s make it better for you and your dog. (Photo: person wearing a hoodie, covering their eyes and sitting on a couch surrounded by boxes)

Moving is stressful. Let’s make it better for you and your dog. (Photo: person wearing a hoodie, covering their eyes and sitting on a couch surrounded by boxes)

Are you moving soon? If so, you’re most likely stressed out. You’re up to your eyeballs in packing peanuts and if you stub your toe on that box in the kitchen one more time…!!! 

Your dog is a barometer for your stress level. They feel every ounce of your tension, frustration, and packing-deadline panic. If you’re exhausted from folding (okay, shoving) clothes into garbage bags until three in the morning, your dog will slide into the leadership role in your household in the blink of an eye. 

You may not notice it at first, because you’re so tired, but here are some examples of things that happen when your dog takes over your (current) house before you even move: 

-excessive barking in the home

-charging the fence in your yard

-nipping and/or herding you 

-pulling on the lead especially when other dogs walk by

-chasing your other pets

What is your dog trying to tell you about your own stress level? (Photo: a red dog with pointy ears howling)

What is your dog trying to tell you about your own stress level? (Photo: a red dog with pointy ears howling)

You may see these changes as well: 

-following you from room to room 

-getting into the garbage (even if they never did that before) 

-attempts to escape your home (breaking out of crates, eating drywall, scratching underneath doors, and jumping through windows)

These are signs of separation anxiety. Often times this is not only a reflection of an unhappy, lonely dog, but a sign that they do not view you as a leader (so when you leave home without them, they try to follow you to protect you.)

The good news is, you can take back the leadership role anytime you like. The tricky part is, dogs will not follow tense, frustrated, tired, or fearful humans — and mastering your emotions is easier said than done. 

What can you do? 

  1. RUSH LESS - If you’re moving into a house and have time to pack slowly, do so. Take your time, listen to music, and of course, take walks with your dog to break up your day. 

Take breaks from packing and walk with your dog.&nbsp;(Photo: Golden Retriever walking on leash with a person)

Take breaks from packing and walk with your dog. (Photo: Golden Retriever walking on leash with a person)

2. DOGGY DAYCARE - If your deadline is impossible and you really need to pack quickly, consider taking your dog to doggy daycare. If they are not accustomed to doggy daycare already, this may not be your answer. Perhaps they love hanging out at your mom’s house, or with your sister. Maybe you have a dog walker that they love. 

NOTE: Simply sending them out of the home for a break will not magically fix the behaviours listed above. You must provide calm and confident energy when your dog is around you. 

3. TREAT YOURSELF - Allow yourself one hour first thing in the morning to walk your dog before the packing begins. Take another break halfway through the day for yourself. If we never practice being calm, then how are we supposed to remain calm on our dog walks/during day-to-day activities?! Do some yoga, practice meditation, play an instrument, pet the cat, or do a crossword puzzle.  

Make time for calm activities (Photo: a hand petting a cat under her chin)

Make time for calm activities (Photo: a hand petting a cat under her chin)

4. EXERCISE - Your dog needs daily exercise and so do you. Take a break from packing and go for a run (bonus points if you run with your dog.) Make time to play fetch with them, even if some of it is in the house while you’re packing. Take time out of your day to go to the gym, go swimming, or play your favourite sport. 

Daily exercise reduces stress (Photo: person running with a dog on leash)

Daily exercise reduces stress (Photo: person running with a dog on leash)

5. GET HELP - If your deadline seems unreachable and you can’t figure out how you’re going to pack and still work your 9-5 job, hire professional movers. The price is worth your sanity. Another option: friends and family will often work for pizza. 

Don’t be afraid to ask for help (Photo: people carrying boxes and petting two dogs)

Don’t be afraid to ask for help (Photo: people carrying boxes and petting two dogs)

You may be thinking, why not slap a bark collar on the dog since they’re the problem. If that’s the case, reread this post. 

The problem is NOT the dog. Read that twice. 

Labelling the dog is easy. “What a bad dog! You got into the garbage!” OR “I don’t know what’s wrong with her. She’s acting nuts! Ever since we started packing up the house, she’s been so snippy.” 

Mmmm. Hmmmm. 

Self-reflection is one of the hardest things any of us will ever learn to do. The sooner you try this, the sooner you will develop an amazing relationship with your dog. Instead of asking “Why is my dog so stressed?” ask “Why am I so stressed?” and “What changes can I make to lower my stress level?”

Every day is a chance for you to start again. A chance for you to lead a balanced life, free from fear and anger. Let’s leave these emotions behind and embrace joy. Embrace peace. Embrace love. Quiet your mind from negative thoughts. 

The ripple effect of a calmer you is so much larger than you can imagine. It begins at home with your human loved ones and your furry family. It extends out to strangers as you travel to work and school. To your coworkers, your friends, your extended family. To grocery clerks, gas station attendants, baristas, and bartenders. 

It begins with YOU. 

We hope this post helps to reduce your stress (Photo: a man stands with his dog beside a SOLD sign)

We hope this post helps to reduce your stress (Photo: a man stands with his dog beside a SOLD sign)

We hope you have a safe and joyful move. Stay tuned for next week’s post about introducing your dog to your new home so they don’t take over. 

Alyssa

Photos by: Christian Erfurt (person wearing a hoodie, covering their eyes and sitting on a couch surrounded by boxes,) Andriyko Podilnyk (Golden Retriever walking on leash with a person.) Robert Gramner (a red dog with pointy ears howling,) Yerlin Matu (a hand petting a cat under her chin,) Sergio Rodriguez - Portugues del Olmo (person running with a dog on leash.) Isaac Benhesed (people carrying boxes and petting two dogs.) Alyssa Foulkes (a man stands with his dog beside a SOLD sign - yes, that’s my man and our first dog, Brooklyn.)