How to Stop Barking in Your Home

Does your dog bark alllll day long? Does it drive you crazy? Read on. (Photo: black and tan Pomeranian yawning)

Tired of listening to your dog bark all day? 

If your dog spends most of her day running to windows and doors barking her head off, it can be very difficult to: 

-have a Zoom meeting

-get any work done

-relax after dinner with a book or a TV show 

-keep your baby sleeping through all of the noise 

-have guests over 

When your dog barks at every little noise, it adds stress to an already stressful workday (Photo: woman with her head in her hands, elbows on her desk in front of her computer, phone, and eye glasses)

You may have tried: 

-sending your dog to her bed

-negotiating with your dog (Please stop barking. Please. I’ll do anything.) 

-yelling “Quiet!” “Enough!” “No bark!” 

Before our training sessions begin, a lot of clients say “I send her to her bed and she goes…most of the time. The problem is that as soon as I go back to doing whatever I was in the middle of, she’s off the bed and right back at it.” 

The problem with “go to your bed” is that there’s no implied stay built into this command. Your dog goes. You say “Good girl,” and the transaction is over. She’s free to do as she pleases. You want her to stay, but you haven’t told her to stay. 

So she goes right back to the window (Photo: Boxer with his head, chest, and front feet sticking out of an open window)

Enter the place command. 

The place command teaches dogs to have an off switch. It’s a calm zone. A zen zone. And when you teach it correctly, it has an implied stay built right in. 

Dogs find placework very relaxing (Photo: Kano the cattle dog mix learning the place command for the very first time)

If your dog is currently spending her time barking at: 

-delivery people

-noisy pedestrians 

-mail carriers 

she is actually learning that her barking is what makes these things go away from your house. This is confusing to dogs because when you invite guests over they think that barking will make them leave. This can lead to all sorts of scary moments at your front door (growling, lunging, air snapping, bites, etc) 

The place command can also help you when you answer your door to greet your visitors. See how that calm zone and implied stay help with more than having a nice quiet day? 

We’ve helped so many families who were struggling with their dog’s constant barking. Let us help you. Schedule your free call now. 

Your dog isn’t too old to learn this. This week, we taught Penny the 9-year-old chocolate lab how to love place. Check her out on our story highlight (place) on Instagram at GoBeyondDogTraining. 

For more videos about the place command, check out our recent TikTok videos featuring Magic the Rottweiler and Lola the German Shepherd. 

You deserve to enjoy a nice quiet home. 

Alyssa 

Photos by: Alexey Demidov @alexeydemidov (black and tan Pomeranian yawning,) Elisa Ventur

@elisa_ventur (woman with her head in her hands, elbows on her desk in front of her computer, phone, and eye glasses,) Upsplash Image (Boxer with his head, chest, and front feet sticking out of an open window,) Alyssa Foulkes (Kano the cattle dog mix learning the place command for the very first time,)

Walking Your Kids and Your Puppy to School

Are you struggling to walk your puppy and your kids to school together? (Photo: Chalkboard with “back to school” written on it)

It’s back to school time here in Ontario. At home, everyone’s in a scramble to leave the house on time. There’s lunches to be made, last-minute wardrobe changes, and breakfast being gobbled as backpacks are being packed. Outside there’s bus engines roaring, kid’s feet pounding on sidewalks, and bicycles whipping by. 

You’d pictured this moment in your mind so often that it seemed real. You and your new puppy strolling to school with your kids. You thought you’d kill two birds with one stone. The kids need to be walked to school, the puppy needs a walk as well. This would be amazing. 

The calm scene you imagined…(Photo: kids walking to school with leaves on the ground)

But it isn’t. 

It feels as though you’re trying to navigate through this (Photo: an extremely crowded street with people, vespas, and bicycles everywhere)

When the kids run ahead, the puppy lunges on leash to catch up to them. When a skateboard zooms past, he barks and tries to bite it. 

And when the school bus rumbles up behind you, he tries to run in the opposite direction and then lies down and refuses to walk any further. The only thing that gets him moving again is another dog walking past. Now he’s pulling you down the sidewalk hoping to catch up. 

Walking a puppy or dog who pulls can feel exhausting (Photo: Dogue de Bordeaux pulling on the leash toward a man who is picking something up off the ground)

When you finally make it to the school yard, your puppy doesn’t seem happy at all when he gets surrounded by children. He snaps at a little girl and you manage to pull him back just in time. Thankfully she didn’t notice, but now your heart is pounding in your throat and your mind is racing with what ifs. 

Your walk home isn’t any better. He bites the leash, he bites your jacket, he bites your hands. 

Inside your home it’s as if he wasn’t even walked. He finds an insane reserve of energy and gets the zoomies spreading muddy paw prints all over your couch and your carpeted staircase. 

You’re pretty sure you didn’t walk though any mud, but somehow it’s all over your carpet and your couch now (Photo: dog sitting in the mud on a hiking trail,)

He gets ahold of one of the kid’s socks and growls at you when you try to retrieve it. 

You’re crying and trying to figure out how to prevent him from eating the sock during your zoom meeting, which you realize you’re now late for. 

We understand how stressful it is trying to raise a well-behaved puppy who is behaving like a snapping turtle. 

You didn’t know that having a puppy would be so stressful (Photo: woman with her face in her hands as though she is crying)

We’ve helped so many clients overcome the puppy blues. In-home sessions can help with: 

-leash manners, so your puppy can walk beside you on your way to school instead of pulling or playing dead

-crate training, so your puppy will happily go into his crate after you walk him and take a nice nap, rather than being a sock-thief with the zoomies 

-socialization, so you learn how to properly socialize your puppy to children, loud noises, and skateboards/scooters/bikes etc. 

Schedule your free call now. 

Schedule your free call now (Photo: happy woman using her phone)

Don’t wait for the biting to break the skin or the leash pulling to give you tendonitis. Get help today. 

You deserve to live your dream with your puppy. Calm walks to school are a phone call away. 

Ready to reach your goals? Schedule your free call now. (Photo: smiling woman posing for a picture while walking her beagle)

Have a wonderful weekend, Dog Leaders. After a busy back-to-school week — you’ve earned some rest. 

Alyssa 

Photos by: Deleece Cook @deleece (Chalkboard with “back to school” written on it,) Jake Ingle @ingle_jake (kids walking to school with leaves on the ground,) Dim Hou @dimhou (an extremely crowded street with people, vespas, and bicycles everywhere,) Anna Dudkova @annadudkova (Dogue de Bordeaux pulling on the leash toward a man who is picking something up off the ground.) Celyn Bowen @indeep (dog sitting in the mud on a hiking trail,) Fa Barboza @fan11 (woman with her face in her hands as though she is crying,) Upsplash Images (happy woman using her phone,) Artem Beliaikin @belart84 (woman posing for a picture while walking her beagle,)

Puppies and Cars

Is your new puppy afraid of car rides? Read on for tips. (Photo: black pug in a red car)

Is your puppy afraid of car rides? 

Do they hesitate to jump in? 

Do you have to pick them up and force them into the car? Are you worried that your back won’t be able to handle this lifting once your pup grows up? 

Does your puppy pant, pace, whine, and drool during the car ride? 

Perhaps they also bark at people and other dogs they see while they’re in the car. 

You’ve tried: petting them, talking softly to them, giving them treats, putting them on your lap, and reasoning with them (“please just lie down and be quiet.”) Nothing is working and you’re afraid that you’ve made a big mistake adopting this puppy because future car rides to the cottage and kid’s soccer games are looking grim. 

How can you help them over their fear of the car? 

First, take a deep breath. You can always begin again once you have the right tools. 

Did you know that puppies need to be a part of the process of getting into the car? They need to get in themselves. This helps them feel less anxious because they are willingly going into the car, rather than being put into the car. 

Pro Tip: Let your puppy get used to your car before adoption day (Photo: Magic the Rottweiler exploring our car two weeks before coming home with us from the breeder)

The next thing you need to know is going to help you with car training and with crate training, so get ready. Never close the door on an excited or anxious mind. Only close the door on a calm mind. Excited and anxious animals will naturally try to escape. They will vocalize and scratch at the door and become frustrated. 

Wait until your puppy is calm before closing crate doors or car doors (Photo: Magic the Rottweiler at 8 weeks of age sleeping in her crate in the car)

Some puppies are big enough that they can jump into the car at eight weeks of age. Most will require a little bit of assistance finding their footing with their back paws. If you help them find their footing, rather than lifting their hind end, they will learn to enter the car independently very quickly. 

10-month-old Norm was today years old when he learned how to jump in the car by himself. His owner’s back is no longer sore. (Photo: Norm the Pyrenees X Bernese mix in the back of a hatchback with his owner)

Ramps are a great tool to use, especially with smaller puppies. Your puppy can build confidence learning how to walk on a ramp as well as playing an active role of getting into the car.

Check out our IG, FB, and TikTok posts with Ozzy the Aussie-Doodle puppy. He was scared of car rides — even the beeping noise the hatch made when it closed. In the videos you can see the steps where we introduced him to two types of ramp and showed him that shutting the hatch was no big deal. Now, Ozzy can go to the vet, the groomer, and the kid’s soccer games without being stressed out. 

Below are two photos of Ozzy that I took during our in-home training sessions.

Introduce the ramp slowly and have fun (Photo: Ozzy the Aussie-Doodle puppy exploring the ramp. His two front feet are on the ramp and he is sniffing a piece of kibble on the ramp.)

Ozzy relaxing in the car for the first time (Photo: Ozzy the Aussie-Doodle puppy lying down in the back of the family’s hatchback after bravely climbing the ramp.)

Ozzy’s owner hopes to do agility with him when he’s old enough. He can already go up and down a ramp. He’ll be a star! (Photo: Border Collie and his owner doing agility with an A frame)

Are you struggling with teaching your puppy or dog to love going into your car? Let us help you with in-home training sessions. Schedule your free call now. You deserve to drive around making happy memories with your puppy. 

Let us help you enjoy calm car rides with your dog (Photo: Magic the Rottweiler (author’s dog) snoozing on her bed in the car)

Have a wonderful weekend, Dog Leaders! 

Alyssa 

Photos by: Priscilla Du Preez @priscilladupreez (black pug in a red car,)

Alyssa Foulkes (Magic the Rottweiler exploring our car two weeks before coming home with us from the breeder,) Alyssa Foulkes ( Magic the Rottweiler at 8 weeks of age sleeping in her crate in the car,) Alyssa Foulkes (Norm, the Pyrenees X Bernese mix in the back of a hatchback with his owner,) Alyssa Foulkes (Ozzy the Aussie-Doodle puppy exploring the ramp. His two front feet are on the ramp and he is sniffing a piece of kibble on the ramp.) Alyssa Foulkes (Ozzy the Aussie-Doodle puppy lying down in the back of the family’s hatchback after bravely climbing the ramp.) Melissa Whitecross @furtography_za (Border Collie running doing agility with an A frame,) Alyssa Foulkes (Magic the Rottweiler (author’s dog) snoozing on her bed in the car.)

Less is More

Less is more in dog training. Dogs use very little sound to communicate with each other. (Photo: Person holding a finger to their lips)

When working with dogs, less is more. What does that mean? What it means is that a lot of the time humans repeat commands over and over again, often before even teaching their dog what those words mean. 

A lot of new puppy parents will follow their puppy around shouting “leave it” when the puppy picks up a shoe or a child’s toy, but the puppy has no idea of what “leave it” means. 

One of the kindest things you can do for your new puppy or your current dog is to ask yourself if they in fact know the commands you are asking of them. If they don’t, now you have the opportunity to teach them. 

Instead of repeating commands, check in with yourself and ask: does my dog know this command? (Photo: Duck Toller wearing glasses with his head on a dog magazine)

Once your dog knows a command (we call this proofing a command,) you can begin to hold them accountable. This means that if your dog knows “sit,” and you ask her to sit, say in your kitchen, and she ignores you, you can now provide her with more information without saying the command again. 

You may need to apply spatial pressure, take a step toward her. You may need to give her some eye contact. That is psychological pressure. Think of how your fourth grade teacher used eye contact to get you to stop talking. It’s not mean, it’s providing more information because you didn’t do what she asked the first time. 

The beauty of spatial pressure and eye contact are that they can be applied in complete silence — less is more. 

Training in silence can be very peaceful (Photo: person kneeling in front of a dog who is sitting)

The other thing you’re doing when you’re using these two types of pressure is you’re using your own energy, your own self, as a tool. Since dogs only listen to other animals who have calm and confident energy, be sure that that is the energy you are projecting when working with your dog. If you’re frustrated, unsure, tense, or angry take a break and try again later when you’ve calmed down. 

Spatial pressure and psychological pressure are very natural to dogs because dogs use this language themselves. Have you ever watched a dog claim another dog’s space or toy? They don’t talk. They move in and claim the space they want. Dogs also use a lot of eye contact to communicate with one another. They even have appeasement signals where they purposefully don’t make eye contact with another dog to show that they mean no harm. 

We can all learn a lot about how to communicate with dogs from watching dogs interact with one another. 

If you’re ever at a loss for how to get your dog to understand you, take some time to learn from the very best teachers: dogs (Photo: Siberian Husky playing with a Labrador Retriever puppy in the snow)

Dogs use way less sound than we do. Because humans talk so much to one another (and to our pets,) dogs sometimes learn to tune us out.

Want to try a challenge? Try one day where you only speak to your dog if you need to communicate a command that you are certain that he/she knows. If they ignore the command, don’t repeat yourself out loud. Try communicating using spatial pressure or psychological pressure. Let us know how it goes in the comments below. 

If you aren’t sure how to use spatial pressure and eye contact correctly, schedule a free call with us now. You can learn how to do this during in-home sessions with us. 

We look forward to learning more about you and your dog (Photo: woman grinning at her cellphone)

Have a great weekend, Dog Leaders! 

Alyssa 

Photos by: Kristina Flour @tinaflour (Person holding a finger to their lips,) Jamie Street

@jamie452 (Duck Toller wearing glasses with his head on a dog magazine,) Pinto Art @pintoart (person kneeling in front of a dog who is sitting) Karl Anderson @karlkiwi90 (Siberian Husky playing with a Labrador Retriever puppy in the snow,) Ghen Mar Cuaño @ghenmar (woman grinning at her cellphone)

Thick Leash or Thin Leash?

Thick leash or thin leash? (Photo: Black dog wearing a leash)

Let’s talk leashes. How many leashes have you gone through with your puppy or dog? 

For many of my clients, the answer is several. Some have actually lost count. 

Many clients have had their puppies and adolescent dogs chew straight through a leash in a matter of seconds. Seconds. If they do this while on a walk and don’t have a rock-solid recall command, it could cost them their life. 

I’ve had a number of calls from people whose puppies have chewed through the leash while on a walk and then refused to come back to their owner. There have been several close calls with cars and a lot of tears. 

Catch me if you can (Photo: Weimaraner running away from camera while looking back over his shoulder)

Whether you’re near cars or on a busy hiking trail, when your dog ignores your recall command and runs away it is a very scary feeling. 

Here are some tips to help you prevent this from happening to you. 

First thing’s first, you want a thin leash. So many people get a really thick leash for their little puppy. Know what happens? The leash is actually quite heavy, so your puppy notices he’s wearing it. It’s annoying and kind of looks like a toy, so he chews right through it. 

Puppies find it easier to ignore a lightweight, then leash (Photo: beagle on a beach wearing a thin, lightweight leash)

How to prevent this: 

One: Get a very lightweight leash for your puppy, so he barely notices it’s there at all. 

Two: Supervise your puppy and disagree with him the FIRST time he goes to put it in his mouth. Do not overreact. Do not pull it away from him (or this creates a game of tug of war.) Then, engage your puppy in an activity with you. Maybe you recall him away by moving backwards and making your body language inviting. Maybe you give him a rope toy and engage him in play. 

As pet parents we need to set our puppies up for success from day one. We have to teach them right from wrong right away. They aren’t born wearing leashes, so it’s up to us to introduce the leash in a positive way, so they enjoy wearing one. We need to disagree with them the moment they pop it in their mouths for a little chew. Leashes are not for chewing. Period. It just isn’t a safe habit to develop. 

What you allow, you agree with (Photo: dog running while carrying his leash in his mouth)

What we allow, we agree with.

Have a safe and wonderful weekend, Dog Leaders! 

Alyssa 

Photos by: Tucker Good @tuckergood (Black dog wearing a leash,) Arun B.S

@arunbsonline (beagle on a beach wearing a thin, lightweight leash,) Elisa Kennemer

@elisalou (dog running while carrying his leash in his mouth.)

Keeping it Simple

Let’s keep training simple, shall we? (Photo: woman relaxing on a balcony with her feet up)

You want your dog to understand simple words and hand signals. 

Here are a few ideas to get you started and to make training your dog more simple: 

Write it down: Write a list of all the commands you want your dog to know. Leave space on the right hand side for writing down the hand signal. For example:  

come - pointing at the ground in front of you

drop it - holding my hands underneath my dog’s mouth below the toy

Then write a list of all the commands she already knows.

sit - slightly raising my right hand while making a fist 

stay - holding my palm out toward my dog

Dogs are masters of reading human body language, so decide what your hand signal is going to be beforehand, so you can be consistent. 

Consistency is key. Put the list on your refrigerator where the whole family (or anyone who lives with your dog) can see it. 

Your fridge magnets need a job:) Let them hold up your fancy new list! (Photo: fridge magnets)

Pro Tip to avoid confusing your dog:

Use “off” for — get your front feet off of that person/object

Use “down” for - lay down on the ground, please

Aren’t sure which commands to teach? Here’s a list of commands that can help save your dog’s life:

-come

-leave it

-drop it

-stay

Anything else to add to your list? 

These commands are super helpful to communicate with your dog on a day-to-day basis: 

-crate

-place

-heel

-break

-let’s go

-up (think: loading your dog in the car) 

-space - I use this specifically for “give the cat space” 

The more your dog knows, the easier it is for you to communicate with her. This helps her feel happy instead of frustrated. Being able to understand one another opens up the world for you to go out and explore and have fun together. 

Your list will also come in super handy when you go away on vacation, so your care provider can communicate with your dog and make her feel safe and secure. 

Happy training! 

Alyssa 

Photos by: Artem Beliaikin @belart84 (woman relaxing on a balcony with her feet up,) Maria Cappelli

@rikku72 (fridge magnets,)

Puppy Socialization Tips

Are you socializing your puppy properly? (Photo: Brown and white puppy making puppy dog eyes)

We all know that we need to socialize our new puppies, but everyone struggles with how to do this properly. 

The word socialize was probably a really poor choice, because it makes most pet parents think they should go to the dog park with their puppy before she’s fully vaccinated so that she can meet lots of dogs. Please do not take your puppy to a dog park. 

Socialization actually begins when your puppy is with her mother, her litter, and her breeder, so choose very, very carefully when selecting a breeder. Reputable breeders should be breeding for the betterment of the breed. They should be showing their dogs in conformation, putting titles on their dogs, and be health testing their dogs before breeding them. They should also know how to begin socializing the litter of puppies properly, bringing in calm people of various age, size, sex, race, etc. They should also be exposing the puppies to different sights, sounds, textures, smells, etc. and be teaching the puppies to simply be neutral around these things. 

Proper socialization begins with your breeder and your puppy’s mother. Choose wisely. (Photo: mother dog nose-to-nose with her puppy,)

So, socialization begins with the breeder and ends with you. This critical stage in development begins when the puppies are born and ends around three months of age (12 weeks old.) There is some debate over this timeframe, with many experts reporting that this critical stage ends at 16 weeks. So, what do you do if you adopt a puppy at 15 weeks of age? And what do you do if the breeder was a backyard breeder who didn’t socialize your puppy properly. Let’s talk about it, because this happens a lot. 

One of my clients adopted a puppy off of Kijiji and was originally told the puppy’s birthdate was April 20th. She was later told the birthdate was April 7th, meaning that she was going to adopt her puppy at 15 weeks of age. This made her extremely anxious because now she would only have one week to socialize her puppy. Like many pet parents, she thought her puppy had to be petted by lots of people and had to meet lots of dogs. How was she going to cram all of this into one stressful week, especially as a working mom? 

The other tricky piece of this puzzle is that the puppy the family adopted was quite fearful. 

There’s a lot of nuance to owning a fearful or shy puppy. In-home training sets you up for success from day one. (Photo: nervous Pomeranian mix)

The first few days didn’t start off well. The family had never owned a fearful puppy before. He bit people who reached their hand out for him to sniff (this is the wrong way to greet a dog, by the way, and we need to stop teaching everyone on planet Earth that it’s correct.) He growled at people who came into the home, the veterinarian (who referred the family to me for help,) nipped two children, and snapped at a Golden Retriever. This left the owners feeling very overwhelmed when they reached out to me for help. 

The goal for socialization is to teach your puppy to be calm and neutral around all of the things you would like them to be calm and neutral around as adults. In a nutshell, your job is to expose your puppy to all the crazy things on planet Earth that are normal to us humans, and teach the dog that these things are no big deal. That’s everything from sprinting children playing tag, to motorized scooters, and everything in between. Take a deep breath, because you can do it! And you need to be calm while doing it, so take another deep breath. 

Socializing your puppy is fun! Enjoy it! (Photo: Rottweiler puppy playing beside a swimming pool,)

We began our first session with a guest greeting that made their puppy feel safe. Greeting a fearful puppy or dog means putting their needs before your own. No touch, no talk, no eye contact is the key. Just because a nervous dog moves closer to you does NOT mean that they want to be petted. 

When we moved to the backyard, you could see that their puppy was afraid of the dog next door who was barking behind the fence. His go-to move had been to run to the back door and pray someone would let him in. By keeping him on a leash, we were able to show him how to relax and just be. Eventually he settled down on the ground to rest. The family did an amazing job guiding him past his fear. 

Here’s a list of some of the things this puppy was being socialized to simply by being in the family’s backyard during our first in-person session: 

-children running, playing, climbing, jumping

-children playing with remote control trucks and a loud toy lawn mower (note: they did a great job playing with these things nearby, but not rushing toward their puppy with the toys!) 

-a guest (me! haha!) 

-a barking dog

-patio stones, mulch, grass

-water (he LOVES playing in water) 

-a hose

-children pushing a wheelbarrow filled with tools

-children wearing hats (the cutest construction hat ever!) 

Teach your puppy to be calm and neutral around children. Distance is your friend. Focus on exposure, not being petted. (Photos: children playing with bubbles)

We also taught their puppy how to:

-follow them on the leash instead of pull

-come when called 

He also enjoyed time simply chewing on one of his toys. If any of you are struggling with your puppy always chewing on mulch, grass, weeds, and leaves, be sure to provide a chew toy as an alternative. 

Pro tip: 

When puppies refuse the chew toy and target mulch, weeds, fingers, and toes, it’s time for a crate nap. 

Near the end of our session, we let the puppy's leash drag on the ground behind him. Would he stay calm, or bolt for the back door as he’d been doing in the past? 

The first activity he chose was to play in the water. After that, he followed their daughter toward the back of the house. He watched her for a moment and then calmly returned to us.

No more running to the back door and praying someone would save him from the scary backyard. Success! 

Teach your puppy that he can look to you for direction, protection, and affection. (Photo: beagle calmly looking up at his handler)

If you have a new puppy and aren’t sure how to socialize him properly, you need a list of all of the things your puppy should be exposed to in this critical socialization window. Sign up at the bottom of any page on our website this week and I will send you my list. I love research. I have looked at every list I could find on the web. I have compiled tips from books, videos, and courses I’ve taken. I've also added to this list for years as I’ve worked with litters of puppies at the University of Guelph, my own puppy, client puppies, and rescue dogs who have missed this window completely. You need this list. If you’re reading this in the future and you would like the list, please email us with the word “List” in the subject line. If you are a current subscriber and you would like the list, please email us with the word “List” in the subject line.

If you’ve never owned a fearful puppy, you’ll want in-home sessions (or online sessions) as well to find out what to do when your puppy: 

• is afraid of your backyard

• refuses to walk on a leash

• pulls like crazy on the leash when you turn toward home

• growls at your houseguests

• freezes out of fear and/or tries to hide

• stops during your walk and refuses to budge

Don’t wait until you’re out of the critical window to get help. You don’t want more houseguests getting nipped and you don’t want to end up with a dog who pulls on the leash at people doing peoply things (bike riding, gardening, skateboarding etc.)  

Imagine having the peace of mind that you’re socializing your puppy properly. We’ve helped so many families through this confusing time who now have well-behaved family dogs they can bring anywhere. It’s your turn. You deserve it! 

Schedule your free call now:  https://beyonddogtraining.ca/take-action

You want to be able to include your dog in big family gatherings like this one (Photo: people of all ages holding hands on a beach at sunset)

More free tips here: 

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Check out the story highlights on IG: pandemic puppies, prevention, and puppy tips. 

Thank you so much for reading the blog! 

Have a wonderful weekend, Dog Leaders! 

Alyssa

Photos by: Izabelly Marques @izamarques (Brown and white puppy making puppy dog eyes,) Jametlene Reskp @reskp (mother dog nose-to-nose with her puppy,) Upsplash Images (nervous Pomeranian mix),) Stephanie Cook @stephtcook (Rottweiler puppy playing beside a swimming pool,) Katherine Hanlon

@tinymountain (children playing with bubbles,) Jaroslaw Knapek @jr3 (beagle calmly looking up at his handler,) Tyler Nix @nixcreative (people of all ages holding hands on a beach at sunset,)

How You Can Help Your Fearful Puppy

How to help your fearful puppy gain confidence (Photo: Pomeranian mix with whale eye)

Is your puppy fearful? 

Does she jump twenty feet in the air when the garbage truck backfires? 

Does she back up when strangers approach? Hide behind your legs? 

Or perhaps she rushes toward strangers and visitors barking and growling…and then backs up. 

You’re beginning to worry about the way she behaves when guests come over. Your puppy is beginning to: 

-air snap (bite the air near people) 

-nip

-growl

-bite at people’s ankles 

-put their mouth around people’s arms, hands, legs, etc

If your puppy is older, you may have even stopped having visitors over because your puppy’s behaviour stresses you out so much. You’ve tried putting her on a leash and holding her collar, but that only seems to make her growl and lunge more.

Now, you’re locking her up in a bedroom or laundry room, which makes you feel terrible because you can tell she doesn’t like being in there. 

She paces. She howls. And now she’s starting to chew the baseboards and the trim. 

You want other people to see the puppy that YOU see — the sweetheart (Photo: boxer with his head, chest, and arms dangling out of a window beside a sign that reads beware of dog)

Let’s get your fearful puppy the help she needs. 

It’s time to build your puppy’s confidence. 

It’s also time to learn how to train a fearful puppy, because there’s a lot of nuance to it and it’s completely different than training a confident puppy. 

First, we need to make sure that we have trust and respect. 

Most owners who have fearful puppies haven’t earned their puppy’s trust yet. Don’t beat yourself up about it. You’re here to learn how. This is a safe space to build you up too. Breathe and believe. 

As human beings, we often apply human psychology to our dogs. We say things like “It’s okay” when it’s absolutely not okay, like after growling at one of your houseguests. We also tend to pet our dogs in this moment, accidentally showing them that we liked the growling. 

To build trust with your puppy, you’re going to: 

-stop saying the phrase “it’s okay”

-stop petting your puppy when she is tense, fearful, growling, etc (basically, we’re only going to pet and reward your puppy when she is calm because we want to see more calmness) 

-stop retelling her rescue story (this is keeping her stuck in the past and we are in the present) 

-show her what she can do instead of barking, growling, lunging, etc (we’re going to teach her the place command.) 

Learn more about the place command here: https://beyonddogtraining.ca/news/what-is-the-place-command

and here: https://beyonddogtraining.ca/news/place-command-construction-edition

How will the things on this list begin to build your puppy’s trust in you? 

Stopping those first three things on the list will help remove your soft energy. When we feel sorry for our puppy, they have to lead us. They are hardwired to follow calm and confident leadership. If we don’t provide it, they will fill the leadership role. Your fearful puppy doesn’t want this heavy burden, so we’re going to do the job from now on. You can do it. 

Teaching your fearful puppy the place command is going to provide her with a confidence boost. If she’s super fearful, she may be shut down and think she can’t do that task. While stepping up on a cot seems minuscule to us, it’s a lot of effort for a puppy who has no confidence. 

When you lead them through activities, they learn to trust you (Photo: Corgi mix sitting on top of a platform looking happy)

Some puppies are so fearful that you may need to flip the cot upside down to begin teaching the place command — and that’s 100% okay. Check out the video of Bandit the Australian Shepherd X Border Collie on my Instagram to see how suspicious he was of his new cot. He actually hid while it was being put together. Even the box moving around scared him. 

Your puppy will learn to trust you as she realizes that nothing bad happens when she steps on the cot. In fact, as you show her that this is her do-not-disturb zone, she will trust you even more to protect her space from other people.  

Pro Tip: Be sure to put the cot on a non-slip floor. The last thing you want for your fearful pup is for her to be brave enough to step on the cot, only to have the cot slide and make a noise that she finds scary. 

Fearful puppies are my absolute favourite to work with because they are so often misunderstood. To outsiders, they look aggressive, but when you peel off that layer of fear, you find an absolute sweetheart underneath — and you can feel their relief that someone finally speaks their language. 

I always say that at the client’s front door I’m having two conversations simultaneously — one with the owners and one with their puppy. The conversation and greeting are completely different. When we greet humans, we make eye contact, we talk out loud, and sometimes shake hands. When we greet puppies in this manner, especially puppies who are fearful, we completely overwhelm them. Dogs are a different species. If we remember that and greet them in a way that is natural to them, we can earn their trust immediately. 

Try using this formula when you greet a new puppy/dog and you’ll be amazed at the difference it makes in their energy. 

No touch.

No talk.

No eye contact. 

Post in the comments below if you know who succinctly summed this up for all of humankind.  

Need more tips on placework and want to see more fearful dogs overcoming their fears? Check out all of our videos here: 

On Insta and FB: Go Beyond Dog Training. 

On TikTok we are at Beyond Dog Training. 

You’ll see: 

-guest greetings go from barking and lunging to dogs sitting calmly beside their owners

-fearful dogs learning the place command, how to go in their crates, how to go into rooms they are afraid of, and more 

-Marley the fearful rescue dog who used to lay down and try to disappear (by closing her eyes) overcoming her fear of the garage

Thank you for reading the blog!

Have a wonderful weekend, Dog Leaders! 

Alyssa 

Photos by: Michelle Tresemer @mtresemer (Pomeranian mix with whale eye,) Don Agnello

@donangel (boxer with his head, chest, and arms dangling out of a window beside a sign that reads beware of dog,) Alvan Nee @alvannee (Corgi mix sitting on top of a platform looking happy,)

Help! My Dog Won’t let me Groom Him

Does your dog show you his teeth when you try to groom him? (Photo: Pomeranian wearing a pink towel on her head. Owner is holding a comb.)

Does your dog show you his teeth when you’re trying to wipe his dirty paws? 

Does he snap at you when you try to take a burr out of his fur? 

Are you scared to brush him? Terrified of clipping his nails? 

You’re not alone. 

Here are a few things that will help you begin to unravel this lack of trust. 

The first thing you need to check on is your dog’s health. Is he limping? Stiff and sore? Does he have an injury? Schedule a visit with your veterinarian to ensure that there’s no underlying health issue causing your dog to be guarded about certain areas of his body. 

If you get a clean bill of health, and the veterinary team said handling him was no problem at all (no snapping, growling, or showing teeth,) then there is a high probability that the issue lies within your relationship with your dog. This doesn’t mean he doesn’t love you, or that you don’t love him. Right now, the issue is trust (and possibly respect as well.) 

When your dog doesn’t trust you, activities like this are very difficult on both the dog and the owner (Photo: Golden Retriever getting a bath)

Make a list of any other times in the day when your dog shows you his teeth. 

For many people, the list will include: 

-when I ask him to get off the couch

-if he steals something (towel, cushion, slipper, sock, etc) and I try to get it back

-when I ask him to get off my bed

-when I walk past him when he’s eating 

-if I walk near him when he has a bone or special chew treat 

-if I need to move him out of my way and try to push past him

This is a great list to show your trainer. All of these issues need to be resolved, not just the grooming/handling piece of the puzzle. I shouldn’t have to mention this, but since one of my current clients recently had a “trainer” tell her to throw a bean bag full of metal bits near her dog to startle him out of growling at their cats and to carry Ziploc bags filled with water on her walks to stop leash reactivity (yes, to throw water on her dog), please find a trainer who will help you improve your relationship and build trust. 

If you are truly nervous, worried, anxious, and/or scared at the thought of touching your dog’s paws, removing a burr from his fur, or brushing him, definitely work with a professional to help you over your fear. Schedule your free call with Beyond Dog Training by clicking the button below.

Things you can do in the meantime to build trust with your dog: 

-wait for natural eye contact before going in and out of doors

-teach him something new (how to heel, a new trick, how to play fetch, how to lay down, the stay command, etc) 

-work on his recall inside your home (keep a leash on so he can’t ignore you - reel him in if he tries to blow you off) 

What about muzzle training? 

Teaching your dog to love wearing a basket muzzle may help you feel more confident as you work on your grooming goals with your dog. The muzzle provides you with peace of mind that your dog can’t bite you, so that you can practice handling and grooming activities. If you’re nervous about muzzle training, work with a trainer/behaviourist who can teach you how to condition your dog to love wearing a muzzle. 

Teaching your dog to love wearing a muzzle will help you, or a professional groomer to groom your dog. It will also reduce your dog’s stress. (Photo: black dog wearing an orange basket muzzle)

Is there anything you should stop doing which may be accidentally promoting mouthing/snapping behaviour? 

If anyone in the family allows mouthing behaviour during play, stop that behaviour because it is working against your goal. Waving your hands around your dog’s face is not only teasing the dog, it’s teaching him that mouthing and snapping are what you like. When you go to wipe his paws, he’s mouthing and snapping. This is all connected. What you allow, you agree with. Stop allowing rough play and choose a game like tug of war that has rules (no biting human body parts and drop it when I say.) Your relationship with your dog will improve very quickly. 

Are you confusing your dog? (Photo: a puppy biting his owner’s hand)

This blog post wouldn’t be complete without mentioning body language. Dogs are masters of reading body language. They don’t speak English. They are paying attention to the way our bodies move. One of my clients was struggling to wipe his new rescue dog’s paws. He said his dog would growl and snap at the towel and that he was afraid he was stressing him out too much. I asked my client to show me exactly how he wiped the dog’s paws. We didn’t use the dog because we didn’t want to set my client up for a growl or a bite in the face. This client was quite tall and he showed me how he would bend over at the waist to wipe his dog’s feet. Then, he would kneel down on the floor and lean over the dog to reach his back feet. Remember that when dogs show dominance to one another they put their head over the top of the other dog’s shoulders. My client was accidentally creating conflict between himself and his new rescue dog, when all he wanted to do was wipe his dog’s feet after a nice walk together. 

The other thing we looked at was the small space where he wiped the dog’s paws — a 3 foot X 2 foot area with the back door on one side and a few stairs leading upstairs on the other. Some spaces are really cramped, so you need to be even more mindful of what your body language is saying and what your new rescue dog’s body language is saying too. We solved this by practicing wiping his dog’s paws in larger spaces (the front hall had way more room, as did the covered porch.) Once his dog trusted him (because they’d built a relationship over time,) he could wipe his dog’s paws in the tiny basement entrance without a problem. 

Always be mindful of your own energy and body language (Photo: woman standing in a bathtub leaning over her Golden Retriever as she bathes him)

Relationships with dogs are built over time. If you accidentally taught your puppy not to trust you and he shows you his teeth, I would recommend working with a trainer who can help you repair that trust. 

Prevention. Prevent this behaviour from developing with your dog by calmly handling your puppy every day when he’s young. When you introduce calm foot wiping as part of your daily routine as a puppy, you’ll raise an adult dog who will happily stand still to have his paws wiped. 

We know how scary it can be when your dog shows you his teeth. If you’re nervous to try asking your dog to get off your couch or scared to brush him, schedule a free call with us. We’ve helped so many owners overcome this issue and go on to build amazing relationships with their dogs. You deserve to be next! Click the Take Action button and schedule your free call today. 

Have a wonderful weekend, Dog Leaders! 

Alyssa 

Photos by: Hayffield L @hayffield (pomeranian wearing a pink towel on her head. Owner is holding a comb.); Autri Taheri @ataheri (Golden Retriever getting a bath); Annie Spratt @anniespratt (black dog wearing an orange basket muzzle); Upsplash Images (a puppy biting his owner’s hand,) Autri Taheri @ataheri (woman standing in a bathtub leaning over her Golden Retriever as she bathes him);

SWIMMING TIPS

“Come on in. The water’s fine!” (Photo: two dogs enjoying a swimming pool)

Swimming is a great way to exercise your dog. A lot of people have an easier time teaching their dog to swim using a river or lake that has a sloping shoreline. Some dogs have trouble learning if there are large waves, so aim for a calm day if you’re on a very large lake or going to the ocean. 

Start small. Play with your dog on the shoreline or a wading pool in your yard (Photo: two sleek grey dogs prance along the shoreline)

Magic learned to swim in a swimming pool. The tricky part about this, is that dogs don’t know there is a step in the shallow end. We know it’s there, so we expect them to simply hop down onto it and swim away, but dogs need to be shown that the step exists before they can learn to use it. 

Is there another stair over here? (Photo: Magic the Rottweiler stands on the top step of the shallow end of the swimming pool, reaching ahead of her with one paw)

In time, your pup will learn to use the step to rest and to exit the pool (Photo: Magic the Rottweiler swims back to the step in the shallow end carrying her ball in her mouth)

Here are a few tips to help your puppy or dog learn to love swimming with you: 

1. POSITIVE — You wouldn’t appreciate learning to swim by being thrown off the dock (this happened to my father’s best friend, and trust me, it wasn’t cool!) If you have a new puppy, take your time introducing them to water and make sure that the experience is positive. You can even begin with a wading pool at home. Use a few liver treats and their favourite toy to entice them into the water. They don’t have to swim on day one, they simply need to learn that water is fun. This also makes bath time a LOT better, so really take your time here and enjoy yourself. Your puppy will enjoy it too. 

2. SOUND — Humans use a lot of sound energy. We talk in excited voices and when we get impatient or frustrated it comes out in our voice too. The last thing you want to do is to teach your dog that water/swimming/bath time makes his human tense/excited/frustrated. Begin working with your dog around water when you are in a calm and confident state of mind. Your dog’s natural curiosity will draw them to you. If you wade along the shore, they will likely follow you and get their feet wet too. If you begin swimming, many dogs will simply follow along and join you. 

Dogs follow leaders (Photo: dog following a surfer toward the ocean)

3. DON’T PANIC — If you’re training your dog to swim in a swimming pool, do not panic if they fall in. Calmly and SILENTLY join them in the pool. By the time you react, they will likely already be above the water and attempting an awkward doggy paddle. A new puppy may require a hand under their belly as they figure it out, a new rescue dog may just simply begin swimming. Move calmly toward the stairs in the shallow end. Your puppy or dog will most likely feel the stairs beneath their feet and use them to get out. Don’t make a fuss. If you freak out, yank them out of the pool, repeatedly say “It’s okay baby. I’m so sorry, I’m so sorry,” then you will teach them that water is something to be avoided at all cost. If you spend the rest of the day holding your breath every time they approach the edge of the pool, worrying that they may fall in again, you will begin cementing the idea that the pool is dangerous. 

If your dog loves fetch, you can use that to teach them to love the water (Photo: Irish Setter retrieving a tennis ball out of a lake)

If your dog is barrel-chested (Rottweiler, Boxer, Bulldog,) invest in a life jacket. Magic can swim without it, but over time gets lower and lower in the water as she returns with her ball. The life jacket allows her to swim much longer, which is awesome because I could happily play with her by (or in) the water for hours. 

Magic the Rottweiler playing fetch in a lake wearing her life jacket

Be patient with your dog as she learns to swim. You didn’t learn how to swim in one day either.

Good luck, be safe, and have fun!! 

Alyssa

Photos by: Alyssa Foulkes (Magic the Rottweiler swimming in a lake carrying her favourite toy,) Gayatri Malhotra (two dogs enjoying a swimming pool,) Nathalie SPEHNER (two sleek grey dogs prance along the shoreline,) Alyssa Foulkes (Magic the Rottweiler stands on the top step of the shallow end of the swimming pool, reaching ahead of her with one paw,) Alyssa Foulkes (Magic the Rottweiler swims back to the step in the shallow end,) Taylor Deas-Melesh (dog following a surfer toward the ocean,) Ryan Stone (Irish Setter retrieving a tennis ball out of the water,) Alyssa Foulkes (Magic the Rottweiler playing fetch in a lake wearing her life jacket.)

Edited: July 15, 2022